Wednesday, March 28, 2012

Reasons Why Men Cheat – Everything You Wanted to Know

If your husband or boyfriend  is cheating on you, or has cheated on you in the past, no doubt the first question that crossed your mind was:

Why?

You’re not alone.  Most women who are victims of infidelity want to know why their spouse or significant other was unfaithful, and what motivated him to have an affair.


But there are several important reasons you need to find out the reasons why he cheated on you.


Why It's Important to Know the Reasons Why He Cheated on You

Knowing the reason (or reasons) why your husband or boyfriend cheated on you can help you deal with the situation.

Knowing why he cheated is also the key to making an intelligent decision about the best way to deal with his infidelity.

If you decide to reconcile with your cheating mate
, knowing why he cheated can give you insight on how to rebuild your relationship and decrease the chances that it will happen again.

If you decide to leave your cheating mate
, knowing why he cheated can facilitate the healing process, and enable you to move on without letting baggage from your old relationship influence the next relationship in your life.


Below are links to 10 articles which will give you a better understanding of some of the reasons why men cheat on their mates, and help you determine why your husband or boyfriend, in particular, may have cheated on you.   


NOTE:  Understand that these articles are NOT excuses for his infidelity.  There are no valid reasons for a man to cheat on his mate.  But the articles below can help you understand some of the reasons whyyour spouse or significant other, in particular, may have cheated on you.     


Following  the links to 10 articles that will help you gain a better understanding of why men cheat, you will find a list of essential articles packed with practical, immediately-usable information that can help you in dealing with his affair, as well as a list of resources that will be of additional help.  


Understanding Why Men Cheat


25 Reasons Why Men Cheat
Men cheat for a variety of reasons. This article covers 25 of the many reasons men cheat on their mates.  Bear in mind that some men cheat for several of the reasons covered in this article.


Why Husbands Cheat
A discussion of 14 of the most common reasons why husbands cheat on their wives.


How Good Men End Up Cheating on their Mates
Sometimes, despite a man’s best intentions, he may end up cheating on his wife or girlfriend.  This article explores some of the factors that come into play when a man who people would never expect to be unfaithful, gets involved in an extramarital affair. 


Happy Husbands Cheat Too, and Even Good Marriages are Susceptible to Infidelity
Most people mistakenly assume that a happily married man would never cheat on his wife. It may come as a surprise to many women that at least 3 infidelity studies have found that
happy husbands cheat, too.   .One of the best kept secrets about cheating husbands, infidelity and extramarital affairs is that in most cases, a man’s happiness, or lack thereof, is not a determining factor in whether or not he will have an affair. Not every cheating husband is dissatisfied or unhappy with his marriage or his wife. See 25 Reasons Why Men Cheat  and Why Husbands Cheat.


Infidelity Traps  - 12 Ways People Unintentionally Get Drawn into Cheating on Their Mates
This article focuses on 12 situations a  man would do well to avoid if he want to remain faithful  and keep from inadvertently cheating on his mate. If your husband or boyfriend is cheating on you, he could have gotten caught up in one of these situations.

10 Innocent Actions that Can Lead to Infidelity
Sometimes the most innocent actions can inadvertently lead to infidelity. A number of ordinary, everyday things can lay the groundwork for having an affair, and contribute to an otherwise faithful man unintentionally cheating on his mate.  


Why Women Cheat vs  Why Men Cheat - They Cheat for Different Reasons
Men and women cheat for completely different  reasons. Numerous infidelity studies, surveys and polls have found that each gender has different motivations for having an affair. This article covers the top 10 reasons why men and women cheat.


Not every man who cheats will attempt  to cover his tracks,  or conceal the signs of infidelity to avoid getting caught.  Sometimes a cheating man actually wants his wife or girlfriend to find out about his affair.  This article discusses 8 reasons why.

Many people are convinced that men are genetically programmed to cheat. This article discusses the so-called “cheating gene, and whether or not a man can legitimately use this as an excuse for cheating on his mate. 

Is it a wife’s fault if her husband has an extramarital affair?  Is a man’s infidelity linked to something that his wife or girlfriend did or didn’t do?  This article shed light on this age old question.  For additional information on this topic, see the article entitled  Tiger Woods’ Mistress Blames Elin – Are Wives to Blame When Husbands Cheat?

Once you have a better understanding of some of the reasons why your husband or boyfriend might have cheated on you, check the list of articles and resources below for practical help in dealing with his affair.
Essential Articles to Help You Deal with His Affair     


The articles in the list below contain practical, immediately-usable advice from a nationally-recognized infidelity expert, which can help you deal with your man’s affair.  These article cover several aspects of  dealing with infidelity.


More articles with helpful infidelity advice from an infidelity expert on dealing with infidelity can be found at  www.NationalInfidelity.com.  

How to Get a Cheater to Tell You the Truth about His Affair

9 Reasons a Cheater Will Lie About His Affair

40 Fatal Signs That You’re about to Be Dumped

17 Subtle Signs That Your Marriage or Relationship is About to End

7 Ways to Catch Your Cheating Husband Off Guard by Making a Preemptive Strike
   


If He’s Cheating, Take a Firm Stand


Should You Take a Cheater Back? – How to Decide

When to Give Cheater a Second Chance


Rebuilding Your Marriage After He's Cheated on You - 12 Mistakes to Avoid



DEALING WITH HIS MISTRESS


What you Need to Know About Your Husband’s Mistress and Why

Suing the Mistress Can Sometimes be a Good Strategic Move

How to Sue Your Husband’s Mistress – Basic Things You Need to Know    

Which States Allow a Wife To Sue a Husband’s Mistress and What Does This Involve?
   


RESOURCES

Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs   (soft cover book)

Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs   (e-book version with Affair Recovery information)

The Best Investment You Can Make in Your Relationship for 2012


REPUTABLE ONLINE SERVICES TO HELP YOU CATCH OR MONITOR A CHEATING MATE


Reverse Phone Search
www.CheatingSpousePhoneSearch.com
  
Reverse E-mail Address Search
 
www.CheatingSpouseEMailSearch.com
 
Online Background Checks
 
www.CheatingSpouseBackgroundCheck.com  


For more articles with practical, immediately-usable advice on dealing with various issues of infidelity ranging from discovery to recovery, subscribe to my National Infidelity column, or visit www.NationalInfidelity.com.
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*** © copyright 2012 Ruth Houston / All Rights Reserved.
Ruth Houston   is a New York-based infidelity expert who is frequently called on by the media to comment on high profile infidelity and popular infidelity issues in the news. She is the founder of  www.InfidelityAdvice.com, the author of    Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs,  and publishes the Infidelity News and Views blog. Ruth also writes the Celebrity Infidelity column  (www.CelebrityInfidelity.com) and National Infidelity column  (www.NationalInfidelity.com) for Examiner.com.  To interview infidelity expert Ruth Houston, or have her speak at your next event, call 718 592-6029 or e-mail  InfidelityExpert@gmail.com


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Sunday, March 06, 2011

Infidelity Articles You May Have Missed

Here are some popular infidelity articles from my National Infidelity column that you may have missed.

To read these articles just click on the title, or visit  www.NationalInfidelity.com and scroll through the list.

To make sure you don’t miss any upcoming infidelity articles, bookmark the National Infidelity page, or subscribe to the column at www.NationalInfidelity.com


Infidelity Traps - 12 Ways People Unintentionally Get Drawn into Cheating on Their Mates
There are some very commonplace, and seemingly innocent situations, behaviors or circumstances that can set the stage for infidelity, or lead a person to unintentionally cheat on his or her mate. This article tells you what to be aware of, and what you and your mate might want to avoid.


6 Signs YOU May Be The Other Woman in His Life - Are You Dating a Married Man?
You could unknowingly be the mistress of a married man who is cheating on his wife. Have you ever considered the possibility that while he may not be cheating ON you, he could be cheating WITH you. This article gives tips on how you can tell.


Spying on a Cheater Can Land You in Jail Unless You Do It Legally - Here’s HowSome of today’s most popular ways of spying on a cheater are illegal. This article explains what you can, and can’t do to spy on a cheating mate, if you don’t want to end up in jail.


40 Fatal Signs That You’re about to Be Dumped
Marriages and committed relationships rarely ever come to a screeching halt. There are usually warning signs along the way. Here are 40 subtle signs that your marriage and relationship is in serious trouble, and that your spouse or significant other is on the verge of calling it quits.


How to Get a Cheater to Tell You the Truth about His Affair
A cheater will rarely come clean about his affair the first time you ask him about it. But there are certain things you need to know about his affair, before you can make an intelligent decision on whether to leave or give him a second chance. This article tells how to get a cheating man to tell you the truth about his affair. See also 9 Reasons a Cheater Will Lie About His Affair


The Best Investment You Can Make in Your Relationship for 2011
Whether you’re married, single, or between relationships - whether your spouse or significant other is cheating on you or not, a good infidelity reference book is the best investment you can make in your relationship. It will serve you well for many years to come. This article explains why.


Who You Should and Shouldn’t Tell That He’s Cheating on You
If your spouse or significant other is cheating on you, there are certain people you shouldn’t tell. Telling the wrong person can complicate matters or come back to haunt you in ways you least expect. This article discusses who you should and shouldn’t tell – and why.


25 Reasons Why Men Cheat
Men cheat on their wives or girlfriends for a variety of reasons. Here’s a laundry list of the 25 most common reasons men cheat on their mates. Keep in mind that most men cheat for a combination of these 25 reasons.


How Can I Keep Him From Cheating on Me?
With infidelity constantly in the news, women want to know what they can do to safeguard their marriages or relationships from an affair. In this article, a nationally-recognized infidelity expert offers some surprising advice on keeping infidelity at bay.


12 Valid Reasons to Snoop if You Suspect Your Mate May Be Cheating on You
Some people say you shouldn’t spy on your mate. But there are some very good reasons why you should search for signs of infidelity if you suspect that your spouse or significant other might be having an affair, and why you can’t afford to be the last to know.


7 Steps to Catch a Cheating Mate
Catching a cheating spouse or significant other does not have to be expensive or complicated. You don’t need to hire a private investigator or buy a lot of fancy surveillance equipment to find out the truth. Just follow the 7 easy steps in this article.


7 Signs He Might Be the Cheating Kind
Some men are more prone than others to cheat on their mates. Here are 7 clues that your husband or boyfriend may be a potential cheater.


He May Be More Likely to Cheat If He, or the Woman Near Him is Wearing Red
Studies have shown that the color red may make your spouse or significant other susceptible to infidelity in more ways than one. Find out how this color can affect your mate, and what you can do about it.


Online Resources to Help You Catch or Monitor a Cheating Mate
If you have, or think you have a cheating mate, there are 3 types of online resources that can help you in almost any infidelity situation you’re likely to encounter, from discovery to recovery. Whether you suspect infidelity, are trying to deal with a cheater in your life, or trying to reconcile with a cheating mate, an online service can help you in one of 10 related situations.


FREE Infidelity Tip Sheets for Men and Women with Cheating Mates
Free infidelity tip sheets and special reports filled with practical, immediately usable advice on a variety of infidelity topics. Compiled by an infidelity expert, and available FREE of charge by e-mail request.



MORE POPULAR INFIDELITY ARTICLES 

 

How Cheating Men Use the Gym or Health Club as an Excuse to Cover up Their Affair

14 Kinds of Women Most Likely to Cheat on Their Mate

8 Signs of Infidelity that Expose a Cheater Who is Trying to Cover His Tracks

Is Your Partner Cheating Online? – Here’s How You Can Tell

Should You Take a Cheater Back? – How to Decide  

When to Give Cheater a Second Chance 

How to Sue Your Husband’s Mistress – Basic Things You Need to Know  

 
What NOT to Do if He's Cheating on You  

 
Tell Your Infidelity Story in a TV Documentary on Oprah Winfrey Network (OWN)

To make sure you don’t miss any upcoming infidelity and relationship articles, bookmark the National Infidelity page at www.NationalInfidelity.com, or subscribe to infidelity expert Ruth Houston’s National Infidelity column at http://www.nationalinfidelity.com/

For the latest articles about Celebrity Infidelity, visit http://www.celebrityinfidelity.com/




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Tuesday, June 22, 2010

What Can Happen to a Father Who's a Victim of Female Infidelity

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If you’re a father, and your wife or girlfriend is cheating on you, you should give serious thought to how you and your children can be affected by their mother’s affair.

Fathers who become victims of female infidelity can be adversely affected in many ways.

Problems Faced by Fathers with Cheating Wives or Girlfriends

The article, entitled When Fathers are Victims of Female Infidelity, points out many of the problems men with cheating wives or girlfriends often encounter.

It also highlights a number of indignities, you, as a father may have to endure if the mother of your children is having an affair.

More Information for Men Who Are Victims of Infidelity

For more information on what you and your children may have to go through, please click here to read the article entitled When Fathers are Victims of Female Infidelity

or

Go to the National Infidelity Examiner page at Examiner.com where you will find the article mentioned above, as well as other articles with helpful advice for men who are victims of female infidelity, including the articles listed below:

14 Kinds of Women Most Likely to Cheat on Their Mate

Study on Mothers Who Cheat

Is She Cheating? Most Husbands and Boyfriends Find Out Too Late

How Men Are Affected by Female Infidelity

Top 10 Reasons Why Men and Woman Cheat

Is She Cheating? – 21 Ways You Can Tell (free tip sheet)
e-mail www.InfidelityInfo@gmail.com with "Is She Cheating - IA" in the subject line.

What Should I Do If I Think He or She is Cheating on Me?

When Should You Hire a Private Investigator to Check Out a Cheating Mate?

What NOT to Do If He’s (She’s) Cheating on You

Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs - soft cover book (Signs apply to both cheating women and cheating men)

Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs (e-book version contains bonus section for men entitled Is SHE Cheating?

Free Infidelity Tip sheets and Special Reports

Infidelity Resources to Help You Catch a Cheating Mate



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Friday, May 07, 2010

How to Sue the Other Woman – 4 Things You Should Know

Alienation of affection laws allow a wife to sue her husband’s mistress.

If your husband is cheating on you, suing the Other Woman is probably starting to sound like an excellent idea. Especially with so many stories of wives suing mistresses recently in the news.

Before you rush out to retain an attorney so you can sue the Other Woman, there are 4 things you should know:

--- what an alienation of affection lawsuit involves

--- hidden benefits of suing the Other Woman

--- 3 things you need to do first

--- how to sue the Other Woman even if you don’t live in one of the 7 “ alienation of affection” states.

The article entitled How to Sue Your Husband’s Mistress – Basic Things You Need to Know
covers all 4 points and includes additional tips on how suing the Other Woman can work to your advantage.

A Preemptive Strike that Can Save Your Marriage

Many betrayed wives think of alienation of affection lawsuits as a form of revenge. But these lawsuits can actually be a sneaky way to phase the Other Woman out of your husband’s life, so you can get your marriage back on track.

There are some definite benefits to suing the Other Woman, even if you don’t follow through with the lawsuit, or even if you sue and can’t collect.

How to Sue Your Husband’s Mistress – Basic Things You Need to Know contains an overview of how alienation of affection lawsuits work, in addition to other practical information and several useful, but little known tips.

Click here now to read How to Sue Your Husband’s Mistress – Basic Things You Need to Know



For more practical information on how to deal with your husband’s mistress, see:

Suing Your Husband’s Mistress for Alienation of Affection and Other Legal Forms of Revenge - part 2

Betrayed Wife Sues Husband’s Mistress for $9 Million and Wins – You Can Too

How to Legally and Financially Get Revenge on a Cheating Mate (free tip sheet)

Will He Leave You for Her?

What You Need to Know About Your Husband’s Mistress and Why

5 Common Excuses Cheating Men Use to See Their Mistresses

When Should You Hire a Private Investigator to Check Out a Cheating Mate?

How to Catch a Cheating Husband

How Betrayed Wives and Other Infidelity Victims Get Revenge on a Cheating Mate

Is He Cheating? Is She Cheating? – 21 Ways You Can Tell (free tip sheet)

Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs (soft cover)

Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs (e-book version with affair recovery information)

Free Infidelity Tip Sheets and Special Reports

Infidelity Resources to Help You Catch a Cheating Mate


For more practical, immediately-usable infidelity advice
on all aspects of infidelity from discovery to recovery,
visit my National Infidelity Examiner page at Examiner.com
where you will find over 150 helpful articles .

For a shortcut to that will take you directly there, go to http://www.ruthsexaminerpage.com/




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Sunday, May 02, 2010

What Women Can Learn from How Sandra Bullock Chose to Handle Jesse James’ Infidelity

Wives with cheating husbands can learn some valuable lessons from the way Sandra Bullock chose to handle Jesse James’ multiple affairs. See Sandra Bullock’s Strategy for Surviving Infidelity Can Help Other Women with Cheating Mates

A New Chapter in Sandra Bullock’s Life

By filing for divorce from Jesse James, and proceeding with the adoption of an African-American baby boy as a single parent, Sandra Bullock showed the world that she has moved on, and has begun a new chapter in her life. See Celebrity Infidelity Update - Sandra Bullock Files for Divorce from Jesse James and Adopts a Baby Boy

Children Can Help Cushion the Blow

While Jesse James was undergoing sex addiction treatment at a rehab in Arizona, Sandra was caring for her 3 stepchildren (Jesse’s kids) and adjusting to her role as a mother to Louis Bardo Bullock, her newly adopted son. The new baby, and Sandra’s stepchildren may have been instrumental in softening the blow of Jesse’s betrayal.

Successful Strategies Other Betrayed Wives Can Employ

Other women in similar situations can learn much from the way Sandra Bullock handled the devastating betrayal of the man she loved.

The article entitled Sandra Bullock’s Strategy for Surviving Infidelity Can Help Other Women with Cheating Mates, will give you a closer look at some of the successful strategies Sandra Bullock employed in dealing with Jesse James’ multiple affairs.

This article discusses 10 valuable lessons other wives can learn from Sandra Bullock on how to survive infidelity, including the ones below:

--- the best way to clear your mind and sort out the facts

--- how to keep from obsessing about his betrayal

--- what to do about your cheating husband’s mistress

--- how to regain control of your life after learning about the affair.

--- how your children can cushion the blow of betrayal, and help you heal

--- the role of family and friends

--- how not to let negative thoughts and emotions erode your mind

--- how to deal with your desire for revenge

--- how to focus on the future instead of dwelling on the past

Click here to read Sandra Bullock’s Strategy for Surviving Infidelity Can Help Other Women with Cheating Mates


For more advice on coping with infidelity, see:

What NOT to Do If He’s Cheating on You

5 Things You SHOULDN’T Do If He’s Cheating on You (free tip sheet)

Be Careful Who You Tell That He’s Cheating on You

Will He Leave You for Her?

What you Need to Know About Your Husband’s Mistress and Why

Are Wives to Blame When Husbands Cheat?

Go or Stay? – How to Decide Whether to Give a Cheater a Second Chance (free tip sheet)

Why Revenge Cheating and Retaliatory Affairs Don’t Work in Trying to Get Even With a Cheating Mate

How to Legally and Financially Get Revenge on a Cheating Mate (free tip sheet)


For more about the Sandra Bullock – Jesse James infidelity scandal , or Jesse James’ mistress, Michelle “Bombshell” McGee” from an infidelity expert’s point of view, see:

Wives of 4 Cheating Celebrities File for Divorce This Month

Celebrity Infidelity Update - Sandra Bullock Files for Divorce from Jesse James and Adopts a Baby Boy

Celebrity Infidelity Update – All the Latest Details on Cheating Celebrities in the News

What Celebrity Mistresses are Doing to Extend Their 15 Minutes of Fame

Celebrity Mistress Update – The Latest Report on Celebrity Mistresses in the News

Could You Be Duped into Dating a Married Man Like Jesse James Duped Michelle Bombshell McGee?

What Michelle McGee, Jamie Jungers and Other Celebrity Mistresses Are Doing to Make News

Jesse James’ Mistress, Michelle Bombshell McGee Appears Live in Las Vegas


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Tuesday, February 23, 2010

Why Some Cheating Men - Like Tiger Woods - Will Never Cheat Again

If you’re dealing with a cheating man like Tiger Woods, and you’re wondering if he’ll cheat on you again, you’ll be interested in the information below.

While some cheating husbands and boyfriends repeatedly cheat on their mates, others never cheat again.

Tiger Woods is one of those men – despite the fact that he cheated on Elin Nordegren with multiple mistresses over a period of several years.

Your cheating husband or boyfriend may be one of these men, too.

Many Cheaters Have Multiple Affairs

Several years ago, I came across a study which found that 2/3 of the men who cheated on their mates had more than one affair. 25% of those men had 4 or more affairs.

My own research over the past 16 years bears that out.

Having interviewed or consulted with thousands cheating men from all walks of life during that time, I’ve found that most cheaters have more than one affair.

What About the Men Who Never Cheated Again?

But some cheating men, even men who previously had multiple affairs, reached a point where they never cheated again.

I wanted to find out why.

What kept certain cheating men from having more affairs?

Why was it that a small number of men never cheated again?

Why Some Cheaters Never Cheated Again

This is what I found out:

Cheaters become repeaters if they don’t suffer any negative consequences as a result of their infidelity.

The more negative consequences a cheater suffered because of his infidelity, the less likely he was to cheat again.

Why Tiger Woods and Other Cheaters Won’t Cheat Again

That’s why Tiger Woods, and other cheating men like him, are unlikely to ever cheat again.

Look at the sheer number and magnitude of negative consequences Tiger Woods has suffered because of his cheating.

Because of this, Tiger falls into the category of cheating men who will probably never cheat again.

Tiger’s marriage and family are hanging in the balance. His reputation has been ruined. His golf career is hold while he desperately tries to make amends to his wife and get his marriage back on track. And that’s just the tip of the iceberg.

NOTE: For more detailed information on this, see my article entitled Why Tiger Woods Will Probably Never Cheat Again.

This article covers more than a dozen negative consequences Tiger Woods has suffered, and is still experiencing, as a result of his multiple affairs.

Will Your Husband or Boyfriend Cheat Again?

Has your husband or boyfriend suffered any negative consequences as a result of cheating on you?

If his affair has caused all kinds of problems in his life – if he lost or came close to losing you, his marriage/relationship, his job, his money, his reputation, his health (HIV/AIDS or other STDs), his standing in the community, the respect of those who know him - he may never cheat again.


Other articles with helpful information based on the Tiger Woods infidelity scandal, are posted on my National Infidelity Examiner page, (www.RuthsExaminerPage.com) including the articles below:

Why Tiger Woods Will Probably Never Cheat Again

Go or Stay – How to Decide Whether to Give a Cheater a Second Chance (free tip sheet)

Why Women Stay with Men Who Cheat

What Are the Major Obstacles to Taking a Cheater Back?

What Cheating Husbands Can Learn from the Tiger Woods Infidelity Scandal

How Good Men End Up Cheating on Their Mates

Does Tiger Woods Fit the Profile of a Sex Addict? Check This List If You Really Want to Know

Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs (e-book version with Affair Recovery information)

More infidelity articles with practical advice visit my National Infidelity Examiner Page at Examiner.com


Or see www.RuthsExaminerPage.com


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Saturday, February 13, 2010

Today is Mistress Day – Do You Know Where Your Husband Is?

Today, February 13, the day before Valentine’s Day, is known as Mistress Day.

It’s the day most cheating husbands usually arrange to spend time with their mistress, since they’ll spending Valentine’s Day, February 14th, with their wife.

Regardless of whether he’s bought his mistress flowers, jewelry, or lingerie for Valentine's Day, he’ll make every effort to deliver it to her in person.

That’s why Mistress Day is the ideal day to catch your cheating mate.

Do you know where your husband is, or where he’s been all day?

Did he follow his usual Saturday routine?
Or did he go missing for an extended period of time today?

Does he have plans for tonight that don’t involve you?

Tips on How to Catch a Cheating Valentine

For tips on how to catch your cheating husband, or how to sabotage his plans for Mistress Day, see the article entitled Catch Your Cheating Spouse on Mistress Day, February 13th

Click the link above or go to my National Infidelity Examiner page at Examiner.com http://www.NationalInfidelityExaminerPage.com

While you’re there, make sure you check out the article entitled Valentine's Day Gifts Will Expose Many Cheating Mates.

This article describes 3 ways that many cheating Valentines will be exposed by the Valentine’s Day gifts they give or receive this year.

More Articles on Valentine’s Day Infidelity and Cheating Valentines

As part of my 7th annual Valentine’s Day Infidelity Awareness Campaign, I’ll be posting other articles on how to catch a cheating Valentine throughout the Valentine season - February 13th,14th, and 15th on my National Infidelity Examiner page at Examiner.com

Visit http://www.NationalInfidelityExaminerPage.com bookmark the page, and come back to read the helpful cheating Valentine information that will be posted there over the next 3 days .

For more help in catching a cheating mate, send for a free copy of the special infidelity report Is He Cheating? Is She Cheating? 21 Ways You Can Tell, by e-mailing InfidelityInfo@gmail.com with 21 ways-Bv in the subject line.


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Friday, February 05, 2010

When You Marry a Potential Cheater Like Jenny Sanford Did

In her book , Staying True, Jenny Sanford, tells how Mark Sanford insisted on removing the fidelity clause from their marriage vows.

By doing so, Sanford signaled his intent early on, and labeled himself a potential cheater.

Despite her misgivings, Jenny Sanford married him anyway

If, like Jenny Sanford, you knowingly marry (or date) a potential cheater, there are precautions you should take to decrease the likelihood that he will actually have an affair.

Free Infidelity Report Tells How to Handle a Potential Cheater

The free infidelity report entitled, “How to Deal with a Potential Cheater,” lists several successful strategies you can use to avoid a lot of hurt, humiliation and heartbreak later on, if you’re married to a man who’s likely to cheat on you.

To request a free copy of this infidelity report by infidelity expert Ruth Houston, e-mail InfidelityAdvice@gmail.com with the words "Potential Cheater Report-blg" in the subject line.

Not Sure if He’s a Potential Cheater?

Not all potential cheaters signal their intent like Mark Sanford did.

Most men who are prone to infidelity don’t reveal themselves right away.

But there is a way you can tell.

If you’re not sure whether or not you’re dating or married to a man who is a potential cheater, take the 7-question Potential Cheater’s Quiz (also known as the Will He Cheat Quiz) posted on the National Infidelity Examiner page at Examiner.com, where you will find over 100 other articles containing cutting edge infidelity information and practical infidelity advice.

The short, but highly accurate 7-question quiz will tell you whether or not you’re involved with a man who is prone to infidelity.

By looking at certain things about your husband or boyfriend - his life experiences, family history, character flaws or personality traits, your answers to the Potential Cheater’s Quiz will tell you if your spouse or significant other is a man who is likely to cheat on his mate.

Click here to go directly to the Will He Cheat Quiz or Potential Cheater’s Quiz.

Or you can request a free copy of the Potential Cheater’s Quiz by sending an e-mail to InfidelityInfo@gmail.com with “Cheater’s Quiz –blg” in the subject line.

If you already know he's a potential cheater, request the free infidelity report How to Deal with a Potential Cheater, so you'll know what to do. E-mail InfidelityAdvice@gmail.com with Potential Cheater Report-blg in the subject line.

Cutting Edge Infidelity Information and Practical Infidelity Advice

For more information about infidelity, cheating mates, and extramarital affairs from an infidelity expert, visit my National Infidelity Examiner pages at Examiner.com, where new articles with cutting edge infidelity advice are posted every week.

You will find over 100 articles with containing cutting edge infidelity information, and the latest infidelity advice, including the articles listed below.

Will He Leave You for Her?

What You Need to Know About Your Husband’s Mistress and Why

Will He Cheat on You? – a 7-Question Quiz (Potential Cheater’s Quiz)

Will You Be the Next Wife or Girlfriend to Become a Victim of Infidelity? - a Quiz

Happy Husbands Cheat, Too

Why the Wife is Still the Last to Know

3 Things a Wife Stands to Lose by Being the Last to Know

Why Most Cheaters Don’t Get Caught

Don't Be Misled by the Top 10 Signs of Infidelity

What Should I Do If I Think He or She is Cheating on Me?

What NOT to Do If He’s Cheating on You

Why Women Stay with Men Who Cheat

What are the Major Obstacles to Taking a Cheater Back?

13 Things Everyone Should Know about Signs of Infidelity

Is He Cheating? – Is She Cheating? 21 Ways You Can Tell (free tip sheet)

Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs (softcover book)

Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs (e-book version with Affair Recovery information)

When Should You Hire a Private Investigator to Check Out a Cheating Mate

The Best Investment You Can Make in Your Relationship for 2010

Free Infidelity Tip Sheets and Special Reports

Infidelity Resources to Help You Catch a Cheating Mate


Bookmark the National Infidelity Examiner page (http://www.nationalinfidelityexaminerpage.com/ ) and check back often, because new articles are posted every week.

Could Your Cheating Husband or Boyfriend be a Sex Addict, Too?

Tiger Woods is nearing the end of his treatment for sex addiction at the Pine Grove facility in Hattiesburg, Mississippi.

If you’re dealing with a cheating husband or boyfriend, you may be wondering if he could be a sex addict too.

I’ve received so many questions from you about sex addicts and sex addiction that I’ve compiled a list of behaviors common to sex addicts which you can check and compare with the behavior and characteristics of your spouse or significant other.

Especially if he's a serial cheater.

Since the list is a little lengthy for this blog, I ‘ve posted it on my National Infidelity Examiner page under the title Does Tiger Woods Fit The Profile of a Sex Addict? Check This List if You Really Want to Know.

The updated list of 25 behaviors and characteristics common to sex addicts is based on information gathered from several medical sites.

Although a qualified medical professional is the only one who can make an accurate diagnosis about such things, you can take a look at the list of common behaviors and make an educated guess.

Medical Professionals Disagree about Sex Addiction

Only a qualified medical professional can make an accurate diagnosis.

But even in medical circles sex addiction is a controversial topic on which even medical professionals don’t all agree.

Many don’t even acknowledge sex addiction as a “legitimate” addiction.

However a growing number of medical professionals believe that compulsive sexual behavior ( sex addiction) is a very real disorder that affect an estimated 16 million Americans of both sexes, from high profile cheaters like Tiger Woods, Steve Phillips, and David Duchovny, to the man next door.


Articles on the Tiger Woods Infidelity Scandal

For articles on the Tiger Woods sex scandal from an infidelity expert’s point of view, see

Does Tiger Woods Fit The Profile of a Sex Addict? Check This List if You Really Want to Know

What Cheating Husbands Can Learn from the Tiger Woods Infidelity Scandal

6 Things Tiger Woods Did that Are Common to Most Cheating Men

14 Reasons Why Tiger Woods and Other Rich and Famous Men Cheat

Did Tiger Woods REALLY Have Sex with Other Men?

Tiger Woods’ Infidelity Due to Sex Addiction Plus Drugs that Boosted His Sex Drive

New Details about Tiger Woods Secret Love Life Reveal He May Be Addicted to Sex

The Tiger Woods Sex Scandal from an Infidelity Expert’s Point of View


These, and other infidelity articles can be found on the National Infidelity Examiner pages at Examiner.com at http://www.examiner.com/x-17416-Infidelity-Examiner or at http://www.nationalinfidelityexaminerpage.com/

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Tuesday, January 05, 2010

All About Getting Revenge on a Cheating Mate

Have you ever wanted to get revenge on a cheating mate?

Most infidelity victims feel this way.

It’s common for a person who has been cheated on to feel an overwhelming desire to seek revenge.

5 Articles on Revenge

There are now 5 articles about getting revenge on a cheating mate on the National Infidelity Examiner page at Examiner.com. Click here to read them all, or use the individual links for each article at the end of this post.

The Need to Even the Score

The hurt and anger you feel at being betrayed by someone you love is usually accompanied by a strong urge to do something to get even with the person who caused you so much heartbreak, humiliation and pain.

Many people, especially women, resort to revenge cheating or retaliatory affairs as a way to even the score, or punish their cheating mate.

The new revenge article I just posted at Examiner.com, entitled Why Revenge Cheating and Retaliatory Affairs Don’t Work When Trying to Get Even With a Cheating Mate, explains how revenge cheating or retaliatory affairs can backfire.

More Articles About Revenge on a Cheating Mate

Other revenge articles posted on the National Infidelity Examiner page discuss why the urge to get revenge is to strong, creative ways some infidelity victims get revenge, forms of revenge to avoid, and how one woman accidentally discovered the best way of all to get revenge on her cheating mate.

The complete list is below:

Why Revenge Cheating and Retaliatory Affairs Don’t work When Trying to Get Even With a Cheating Mate

3 Types of Revenge Cheating or Retaliatory Affairs

How Betrayed Wives and Other Infidelity Victims Get Revenge on Their Cheating Mates

More Women are Resorting to Violent Acts of Revenge

William Taylor’s I Cheated Sign and Other Forms of Revenge


2 Free Tip Sheets

There are also 2 free tip sheets below, which you can request by e-mail from the list of free infidelity tip sheets and special reports at this link.

How to Legally and Financially Get Revenge on a Cheating Mate (free tip sheet)

How Wives with Cheating Husband Can Gain the Upper Hand (free tip sheet)

For the latest information and advice on infidelity, cheating mates and extramarital affairs, visit the National Infidelity Examiner page at Examiner.com


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