Wednesday, February 15, 2017

Signs of Infidelity that Usually Show Up After Valentine’s Day



There are certain signs of infidelity that usually appear shortly AFTER Valentine’s Day which can expose a cheating mate.  But knowing what to look for is the key.  If you think you have a cheating spouse or significant other check the list below.  The first 10 are for women who think their husbands or boyfriends may be cheating on them.  The last 5 are for men who think they might have a cheating girlfriend or wife.

For Women:
●   A hidden gift-wrapped Valentine’s Day gift that disappeared after Valentine’s Day but wasn’t given to you.

●   Receipts for the purchase of 2 identical gifts.  The jewelry store receipt says he bought 2 identical diamond heart pendants.  You got one, who did he give the other one to?

●   Receipts or credit card bills for candy, flowers, jewelry, lingerie or gift cards you didn’t personally receive from him on Valentine’s Day.  Who got a gift card for $300 worth of lingerie from Victoria’s Secret, or a day of pampering at a local spa?  (If it wasn’t you, then who?

●   Receipts or charge slips for gifts that don’t correspond with the Valentine’s Day gift he gave you.
●   A thank you note, e-mail or text from another woman to your spouse husband or boyfriend for a Valentine’s Day gift you know nothing about. (If it was an innocent gift he would have told you about it)

●   Restaurant receipts or charge slips dated February 13, 14, or 15 showing an expensive meal at a fancy restaurant that didn’t include you.

●   Credit card receipts for a hotel stay dated February 13 (Mistress Day), February 14, or February 15, the day of or the day after Valentine’s Day. (Does the time stamp correspond with the time your husband or boyfriend was missing in action or unreachable by phone on Mistress day?)

●   A discarded florist receipt showing an expensive Valentine’s Day floral arrangement delivered to a person or an address unfamiliar to you.

●   Cell phone logs or a cell phone bill showing suspicious calls made very early in the morning, very late in the evening on Valentine’s Day or Mistress Day.  (See the Mistress Day articles at www.InfidelityAdvice.com )

●   ATM slips for cash withdrawals on or around Valentine’s Day that greatly exceed what he spent on you for Valentine’s Day.  (If your husband gave you flowers and took you out for dinner on Valentine’s Day, why did he need to withdraw $600 2 days before Valentine’s Day?)

For Men:
●   A discarded heart shaped box,  a light blue Tiffany box, crumpled remnants of red wrapping paper or wrapping paper with hearts on it, other evidence of a Valentine’s Day gift that you didn’t give your girlfriend or wife, hidden in the bottom of the wastepaper basket or tossed into the trash.  

●   New jewelry your wife or girlfriend suddenly starts wearing shortly after Valentine's Day - especially if it's heart shaped, contains diamonds or rubies, or is engraved with sentiments of love. (If she attempts to pass it off as a piece of jewelry she purchased for herself, ask her to show you the sales receipt.)

●   A discarded (or hidden) love note to your wife or girlfriend that came from Valentine’s Day flowers that weren’t sent by you.

●   A text message on your wife’s or girlfriend’s cell phone thanking another man for a Valentine’s Day she never mentioned to you. (If it was an innocent gift, why didn’t she tell you about it?)

●   Lingerie that suddenly appears in her underwear drawer after Valentine’s Day - lacy panties or bras -- especially in black or red.  If she tells you she purchased them for herself, ask to see the sales receipt.)

Some of signs above were taken directly from  Is He Cheating on You? 829 Telltale Signs  The chapter on Gifts contains 19 telltale signs. The chapter on Physical Evidence contains 32 telltale signs. The chapter on Absences contains 39 telltale signs. The chapter on Financial Affairs contains 52 telltale signs. The chapter on Accidental Slip-Ups or Disclosures contains 57 telltale signs. Each of the 21 categories of infidelity signs contains from 19 to 92 specific telltale signs.

A WORD OF CAUTION:
Don't accuse your spouse or significant other of cheating solely on the basis of the signs above. Before you confront your mate about infidelity you need to have solid proof.  Where there's one sign of infidelity, there are always dozens more to be found.  Knowing what to look for is the key. 

This is where a good infidelity reference book can help.  Is He Cheating on You? 829 Telltale Signs documents practically every known sign of infidelity, including the subtle signs people usually overlook. Despite the title, most of the signs in the book apply to both cheating women and men.


Is He Cheating on You? 829 Telltale Signs is available in soft cover from  Amazon.com or as an e-Book format from Booklocker.com.
               
© copyright Ruth Houston 2017  All rights reserved.


More Infidelity Information for You

This is the last article in the Valentine’s Day infidelity article series associated with my 14th Annual Valentine’s Day Infidelity Awareness Campaign.  For other articles in the series, visit www.InfidelityAdvice.com or see the list below. 

To receive my monthly newsletter with practical advice for women and men on all aspects of infidelity from discovery to recovery, e-mail InfidelityAtoZ@gmail.com   

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Tuesday, February 14, 2017

How Valentine’s Day Flowers Will Expose Many Cheating Mates Today


Valentine’s Day flowers can expose cheating mates and accidentally lead to the discovery of extramarital affairs.  Of the $2 billion being spent on Valentine’s Day flowers this year a significant  amount will come from cheating men buying flowers for their mistresses or someone they’re seeing on the side. Many of these cheaters will end up being exposed by the flowers they give or receive. 
Love Note Mix-Ups
Love note mix-ups are a fairly common way for Valentine season infidelity to be brought to light.  Many cheating husbands and boyfriends buy Valentine’s Day flowers for their affair partner from the same florist they buy flowers for their main girlfriend or wife.   Frequently, both sets of flowers are purchased at the same time.  

For florists, Valentine’s Day is their busiest time of the year.  Things can get pretty hectic with hundreds – sometimes thousands of floral arrangements being delivered in a short period of time.  It’s easy for florist or their assistant to get the love notes for the two sets of flowers mixed up. But it’s not always the florist’s fault.  If the love notes are attached by the cheater himself, then he may be responsible for the mistake.

Florist Receipts and Credit Card Bills

Secret love affairs can also exposed by the florist receipt with the mistress’s name and address if the cheater forgets to put it away,  It may be accidentally left in the cheating man’s pocket, or inadvertently left lying around for his wife or main girlfriend to find. While this can be upsetting, it can also be an unexpected  bonanza if the wife or girlfriend has been trying to find out the identity of the “other woman” in her man’s life.

Sometimes infidelity may be exposed by a credit card statement that comes in long after Valentine’s Day which indicates that two bouquets of flowers were purchased.  Or it could be a forgotten credit card slip or discarded florist receipt that reveals this possibly incriminating fact.  The cheater may be caught by surprise and be unable or unwilling to explain who received the other bouquet.

Flowers a Cheating Wife Receives

A cheating wives or girlfriend can be exposed by  the Valentine’s Day flowers her secret lover has sent.  Her husband or boyfriend may happen to see a note attached with sentiments of love from another man.  

Or he may find out from gossipy co-workers that a lavish bouquet of Valentine’s Day flowers was sent to his wife or girlfriend at her place of work. This could be indicative of infidelity  -- a sign that you may not be her only Valentine. This is especially true if the flowers are sent to her workplace instead of her home. If they weren’t sent by a male family member like her father, her son or her favorite nephew, then she’s got some explaining to do.


The husband or boyfriend may even stumble across an incriminating love note to his spouse or significant other long after Valentine’s Day has passed.  Because women are sentimental, they tend to save these types of things.

Valentine’s Day Flowers Expose 3 Extramarital Affairs

To read 3 brief real-life stories of how Valentine’s Day flowers exposed a cheating wife and 2 cheating husbands in 3 very different ways, visit my Real Life Infidelity blog.
More Infidelity Information for You

This article is part of the Valentine’s Day infidelity article series associated with my 14th Annual Valentine’s Day Infidelity Awareness Campaign.  For other articles in the series, visit www.InfidelityAdvice.com or see the list below.  Check back tomorrow for the final article in the series which will list specific signs of infidelity you can find shortly after Valentine’s Day.

To receive my monthly newsletter with practical advice for women and men on all aspects of infidelity from discovery to recovery, e-mail InfidelityAtoZ@gmail.com   
               
© copyright Ruth Houston 2017  All rights reserved.


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Monday, February 13, 2017

Mistress Day Excuses Cheating Men Use to Cover a Lover's Tryst


Was your man missing for an extended period of time today?

Was he unreachable by phone?  Did he take too long to return your call or your text?

Does he have plans tonight that don’t involve you?

It’s not uncommon for these things to happen when a cheating man is spending time with his lover on Mistress Day.  Lies must be told to account for his unavailability.

What excuse did he give?

Cheaters husbands and boyfriends can come up with all kinds of excuses to cover up a lover’s tryst on Mistress Day.

Most cheating men will usually devise a work-related excuse  of some kind. A 2-hour absence around the middle of the day can be covered with the “lunch with a client” excuse.  For an afternoon disappearance similar in length, the “business meeting excuse” will usually suffice.   An hours-long disappearance in the evening can often be disguised as “dinner with clients from out-of-town.”

These types of excuses are commonly used because they’re unlikely to be questioned by the cheater’s mate.  

You should be very suspicious if he goes missing for an extended period of time.  You should be equally suspicious if he has plans to go somewhere or do something this evening that doesn’t involve you.

Another common excuse cheating husbands and boyfriends use is

“I had to go pick up your Valentine’s Day gift.”

Not many women will challenge that.  He can always cover a lengthy absence by telling you he had to wait because it wasn’t ready yet, to the line was unusually long.  

If you suspect infidelity, or think he’s up to no good, look for incriminating evidence  when he returns.  Check his pockets his “junk drawer,” the top of his dresser or nightstand for  a restaurant, hotel, gas, parking , ATM  or credit card receipts – anything that can clue you in to where he might have been, or what he was up to behind your back.

For more information on the Mistress Day activities of cheating men, you might want to check out the articles below.  NOTE: Please feel free to tweet the links to this article and the articles below, or share these links with your Facebook friends.

How Valentine’s Day Flowers Will Expose Many Cheating Mates Today 

How Valentine’s Day Flowers Exposed 3 Extramarital Affairs








More Infidelity Information for You

This article is part of the Valentine’s Day infidelity article series associated with my 14th Annual Valentine’s Day Infidelity Awareness Campaign.  Tomorrow’s articles will discuss how flowers, jewelry, and certain types of behavior can expose a cheating Valentine.  The final article in the series will cover specific signs that show up shortly after Valentine’s Day has passed.

To receive practical advice every month on dealing with all aspects of infidelity from discovery to recovery, e-mail InfidelityAtoZ@gmail.com   
               
© copyright Ruth Houston 2017  All rights reserved.


Ladies, Today is Mistress Day: Keep a Watchful Eye on your Man


Today is Mistress Day and every woman should be on high alert.  You need to keep a watchful eye on your man if you suspect infidelity, or if you already know you have a cheating mate.  If your man is cheating he’ll be spending quality time with his sidepiece today since he has to spend Valentine’s Day  with you.

As part of my 14th Annual Valentine’s Day Infidelity Awareness Campaign, I’ve posted some articles on my Infidelity Advice blog to give you the inside scoop.

What Cheaters Everywhere Will Be Doing on Mistress Day Feb. 13  provides details on the things cheaters usually do with or for their mistresses on a typical Mistress Day.  Once you have an idea of what he might be up to today, you can decide what course of action you want to take.  Would you prefer to catch him in the act, or just sabotage his day?   The article entitled  How to Sabotage Your Cheating Mate’s Plans for Mistress Day  gives you more details about what kind of things you can do.  On my Real Life Infidelity blog there’s an article entitled How 4 Wives Sabotaged Their Husband’s Plans on Mistress Day with brief accounts of what other women have done.

The cheater will usually wine and dine his mistress at a fancy restaurant. It may also include a lover’s tryst at a nearby hotel.   For his Mistress Day plans to run smoothly, lies will have to be told. So look for another article from me today with some of the common excuses cheating Valentines use.    

More Infidelity Information for You

For more articles about Valentine’s Day infidelity, see the list of related articles below. Bookmark this page and check back often so you won’t miss any of this valuable advice.   Please feel free to tweet the link to this article or share it with your Facebook friends.

This article is part of the Valentine’s Day infidelity article series associated with my 14th Annual Valentine’s Day Infidelity Awareness Campaign.  Upcoming articles will cover what clues to look for between February 13 – 15,  how flowers, jewelry, and certain types of behavior can expose a cheating Valentine, and specific signs that show up when Valentine’s Day has passed.

To receive practical advice every month on dealing with all aspects of infidelity from discovery to recovery, e-mail InfidelityAtoZ@gmail.com   
               

© copyright Ruth Houston 2017   All rights reserved.









Sunday, February 12, 2017

How to Sabotage Your Cheating Mate’s Plans for Mistress Day



Cheating men and their mistresses are eagerly looking forward to spending time with each other  on Mistress Day, Feb. 13.  This day is very important to the secret lovers since Valentine’s Day will be spent with their spouse or primary mate.  If your spouse or significant other happens to be one of these cheating Valentines, you might want to sabotage their plans.

The article entitled WhatCheaters Everywhere will be Doing on Mistress Day discussed the types of things that cheating men and women generally do together on their special day.  This article goes into more detail on some of the things you can do to sabotage their carefully laid plans.

Flowers for Mistress Day

Since the cheater will usually by flowers for his mistress. There are a number of things you can do if you’re lucky enough to get your  hands on the florist receipt. The name of the person  they are to be delivered to is a dead give-away.  And if the delivery address doesn’t match where you live or work, you’ll know for sure the flowers aren’t for you.  Re-routing or canceling the mistress’s Valentine’s Day flowers is one way to sabotage the cheater’s plans.

One woman called the florist and had the flowers delivered to a different apartment in the same building where the mistress lived.  Another woman had her brother pretend to be the cheater and cancelled the delivery saying that he just learned that the intended recipient would be out of town.  He told the florist he call and reschedule the delivery after she returned.  Harmless? Yes.  But it served the purpose of spoiling the cheating Valentines’ day.

Romantic Dinner or Lunch

A romantic lunch or dinner usually figures prominently in the Mistress Day rendezvous.  You might want to check to see if the cheater has made reservations for Mistress Day at one of his favorite upscale restaurants. Do a little snooping on your own or check with his secretary (if he has one) to see where he has lunch (or dinner) reservations for Feb. 13.

If you’re able to find out, you can take pictures of them arriving together and confront him later.  Or if you’re bold enough you can show up at the restaurant and meet them at the door.   Another alternative is to surprise him at work treat him to special pre-Valentine’s Day lunch or pre-Valentine’s Day drinks and dinner after work.  If he has to spend Mistress Day with you instead of her, it will certainly put a monkey wrench in their plans.  To read about the really unique way one woman sabotaged her husband’s Mistress Day lunch along with 3 other brief real-life accounts, see the article on my Real Life Infidelity blog entitled How 4 Wives Sabotaged Their Husband’s Plans on Mistress Day

Weekend Lover’s Rendezvous

Since Mistress Day falls on Monday this year, some cheating husbands and boyfriends may have even taken their mistress away for the weekend and passed it off as a business trip.  Especially since the weekend lover’s rendezvous would not keep him from celebrating Valentine’s Day as usual with you.  If find evidence that he’s taken a weekend trip with his mistress and you’re able to find out the flight number, you (or a private investigator) can be waiting at the airport when the two cheating Valentines return.

Mistress Day Lover’s Tryst

A little digging could also uncover evidence of a hotel or motel reservation for Feb 13.   Surprise the lovebirds by waiting in the lobby to greet them when they arrive.  If you’re not one for a lot of drama,  feel you may lose control, or think the situation might get out of hand, you can always opt for a more low-key approach, Simply arrange the evidence you’ve found in a strategic place where he’ll be sure to see it.  Then see what lies he’ll tell you, or what trumped up excuse he’ll concoct in his attempt to explain it all away. 

Other Options

If this isn’t the first time he’s cheated on you, or you’ve had it with all his lies and phony excuses, you might want to hire a private investigator to take pictures of His Mistress Day rendezvous so that when you confront him about his infidelity, you’ll have documented proof. 

You can see that you have a number of options for sabotaging his Mistress Day plans.  For real life accounts of how other women have sabotaged their partner’s Mistress Day plans, see the article entitled How 4 Wives Sabotaged Their Husband’s Plans on Mistress Day on my Real Life Infidelity blog.

This article is part of the Valentine’s Day infidelity article series associated with my 14th Annual Valentine’s Day Infidelity Awareness Campaign.  Upcoming articles in the next 2 days will cover what clues to look for between February 13 – 15,  how flowers, jewelry, and certain types of behavior can expose a cheating Valentine, and specific signs that show up when Valentine’s day has passed.

Bookmark this page and check back often over the next 2 days so you don’t miss any of this valuable advice.   Please feel free to tweet the link to this article or share it with your Facebook friends.
  


Saturday, February 11, 2017

What Cheaters Everywhere Will Be Doing on Mistress Day Feb. 13


Mistress Day, Feb 13 is the day cheaters set aside to spend quality time together since they’re obligated to celebrate Valentine’s Day with their mates.  This unofficial holiday falls on Monday this year, and most cheating men and women already have their plans in place.

This article in the Valentine’s Day infidelity series will give you an idea of what cheating Valentines usually plan to do.  Armed with this information you can decide whether you want to catch the cheaters together, or sabotage some, if not all of their plans

Flowers and Gifts.

A cheating man has to make arrangements to give his mistress her Valentine’s Day gift in person.  A cheating woman has to make herself available to receive her secret lover’s gift.  Regardless of whether it’s the man or the woman who’s the cheater, whatever the game plan is, schedules must be adjusted, and lies must be told.  To pull all this off without making their spouse or significant other suspicious, the cheater may call in sick for the day, take an extended lunch, or take the whole afternoon off.


It’s customary for a cheating husband or boyfriend to give his mistress flowers and a special Valentine’s Day gift.  In fact, 50% of the women in one survey said they’d end their relationship if they didn’t get something for Valentine’s Day.   So if the cheater wants to stay in his mistress's good graces (and in her bed) it’s mandatory that he buy her a gift. 

A special bouquet of Valentine’s Day flowers will usually be delivered to the mistress’s job. They must be sufficiently lavish to impress her co-workers, though sometimes he’ll have them delivered to her home. Florists have observed that cheating men spend much more money on flowers for their mistress than they spend on the flowers they buy for their wife.     

Mistress Day Lover’s Trysts  

The typical Mistress Day rendezvous begins with a romantic lunch or dinner at an upscale restaurant. If her Valentine’s Day gift is a piece of jewelry, the cheater will usually give it to his mistress over a candlelit meal.  If he buys her Valentine’s Day candy, it will be Godiva or a comparable premium brand.  One study found that cheating men 3 to 4 times more on their mistress than on their wife or main girlfriend. Mistresses usually get the most expensive gifts.

If lingerie is part of his Mistress Day gift, he may splurge on the honeymoon suite at an upscale hotel.  Champagne and a gourmet room service feast may be the prelude or the finishing touch to an afternoon or evening of passionate love.


Since Mistress Day falls on Monday this year, if the cheating man can pass it off as a business trip, he may spring for a weekend away. He’ll be back in plenty of time to celebrate Valentine’s Day with his main girlfriend or his wife.


More Mistress Day Tips and Advice

Now that you know what they’ll be up to, you can decide where, when and how to sabotage their plans. For brief accounts of 4 women who did this, visit my Real Life Infidelity blog.

The next article in the Valentine’s Day infidelity series will provide details on exactly how you can sabotage the cheater’s Mistress Day plans.  Bookmark this page and check back often over the next 2 days so you don’t miss any of this valuable information.   Please feel free to tweet the link to this article or share it with your Facebook friends.

This article is part of the Valentine’s Day infidelity article series associated with my 14th Annual Valentine’s Day Infidelity Awareness Campaign.  Other upcoming articles will cover  what clues to look for between February 13 – 15,  how flowers, jewelry, and certain types of behavior can expose a cheating Valentine, and specific signs that show up when Valentine’s day has passed..

Friday, February 10, 2017

To Catch Your Cheating Mate on Valentine's Day, Hire a Private Eye


If you suspect your spouse or significant other of infidelity and haven’t been able to get any proof thus far, the three day period from February 13 - 15 is one of the best times of the year to hire a private investigator to get the proof you need.  On or around Valentine’s Day is when he’ll have the best chance of catching your cheating mate.   See Valentine’s Day is an Ideal Time to Catch Your Cheating Mate  

Normally I Don’t Recommend Private Eyes

As author of a popular infidelity reference book which helps men and women catch their cheating mates, I rarely recommend the use of a private eye.  I firmly believe that if a person knows what to look for, they can find evidence of infidelity on their own.  As an infidelity expert who has been researching infidelity for over 20 years, I’ve interviewed countless men and women who’ve spent large sums of money hiring private investigators without getting any results. 

The Exception is Valentine’s Day

The Valentine season from Feb. 13 – Feb.15 is an exception to that rule. Since cheaters of both sexes can be counted on to get together at some point during this time to give or receive the traditional Valentine’s Day gift, you’ll only need to hire an investigator for 3 days or less.

Most cheaters of both sexes can be counted on to make contact with their affair partner at some point, before, during, or after Valentine’s Day.  A cheating man must personally give his mistress her Valentine’s Day gift.  A cheating woman has to meet her secret lover somewhere to receive his Valentine’s Day gift. This 3-day window of opportunity greatly increases the chance that the investigator you hire will catch your cheating mate “in the act.” 

Book Your Investigator Early

If you decide to hire a private investigator for Valentine’s Day, book early.  For most investigators who specialize in infidelity investigations this is their busiest time of the year. You can further reduce the cost of your investigation if you can pinpoint the time when the cheaters are most likely to meet.  Is it lunch time?  Before work?  After work?  Or late at night when your spouse or significant other thinks you’re asleep?  If you already know your mate is cheating, or strongly suspect infidelity, or, you might already have a good idea what the best time might be.    This will help your investigator deliver maximum results at minimum expense.  Fees can range from $50 to $100 an hour or much more.

You might also consider hiring an investigator just for Mistress Day, February 13 to monitor your mate.   This “unofficial holiday” is when most cheating men spend time with their affair partner, since they must celebrate with their wife or main girlfriend on Valentine’s Day.  

If You Can’t Afford a Private Eye

If you can’t afford a private investigator, or just prefer not to hire one, there’s $37 dollar alternative that will work almost as well.  A good infidelity reference book like Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs will help you get the all proof you need.  It documents practically every known sign of infidelity, including the subtle signs people usually overlook. Despite the title, most of the infidelity signs in the book apply to both cheating women and cheating men.  The e-book version which comes with a bonus an affair recovery guide is available for $37 from  Booklocker.com.  The soft cover version can be purchased from Amazon.com for $29.95.   

More Valentine’s Day Infidelity Information

This article is part of the Valentine’s Day infidelity article series associated with the 14th Annual Valentine’s Day Infidelity Awareness Campaign.  Upcoming articles over the next few days will cover  what clues to look for between February 13 – 15,  the inside scoop on  Mistress Day (February 13) and how flowers, jewelry, and certain types of behavior can expose a cheating Valentine.

As it gets closer to Valentine’s Day, my Real Life Infidelity blog will carry brief “real life” accounts of men and women who caught their cheating mates on or around the most romantic day of the year.  The final article in the series will list some specific signs of infidelity you can typically find shortly after Valentine’s Day. 

Bookmark this page and check back often over the next few days to make sure you don’t miss any of this valuable information.   Please feel free to tweet the link to this article or share it with your Facebook friends.


Thursday, February 09, 2017

Valentine’s Day is an Ideal Time to Catch Your Cheating Mate


Valentine’s Day is one of the best times of the year to catch a cheating mate. There are several reasons why:

      ●  A cheating man has to buy his mistress a Valentine’s Day gift if he wants to remain in her good graces (and in her bed).

      ●  If the cheaters live or work in close enough proximity to each other, his mistress or sidepiece will expect him to deliver her Valentine’s Day gift in person.  If it’s the woman who’s cheating, she has to make herself available to personally receive her secret lover’s Valentine’s Day gift.  

      ●  Most cheaters will get together with their secret lover at some point between February 13 – 15 to give or receive that traditional Valentine’s Day gift.

      ●  The giving of this Valentine’s Day gift usually includes a romantic Valentine’s lunch or dinner, and sometimes a lover’s tryst at the mistress’s home, a love nest or a nearby hotel.   

      ●  Regardless of how the Valentine’s Day gift was paid for (cash, check, debit or credit card) or how it was bought (online, from a catalog, or from a physical store) it will leave a paper trail.

All of this creates multiple opportunities for a cheater to get caught, and it’s a 3-day window of opportunity you should not ignore if you think you have a cheating mate.  This is especially true if you have no evidence of the affair yet, or have been frustrated in your attempts  to get tangible proof.  Of course, knowing what to look for is the key.

The purpose of the Valentine’s Day Infidelity Awareness Campaign is to provide you with tips, suggestions and other practical advice on how to catch a cheating Valentine. The next article in the series will discuss hiring a private eye for Valentine’s Day or Mistress Day to help you get the goods on your cheating mate. But if you can’t afford one, don’t despair.

Over the next few days, this blog will feature a series of Valentine’s Day Infidelity articles on how Valentine’s Day flowers and gifts can expose a cheating mate, and give you the inside scoop on Mistress Day (February 13).

As it gets closer to Valentine’s Day, my Real Life Infidelity blog will carry brief accounts from my files of real men and women who used these tips and techniques to catch their cheating mates on or around the most romantic day of the year.  The final article in the series will list some specific signs of infidelity you can typically find shortly after Valentine’s Day. 

I encourage you to use this information to your advantage if you think your spouse or significant other is cheating on you.  These Valentine’s Day Infidelity articles can not only help you confirm your suspicions of infidelity, they can also help reassure you if you have a faithful mate. 

Bookmark this page and check back often over the next few days to make sure you don’t miss any of the articles in the Valentine’s Day Infidelity Awareness Campaign.   Please feel free to tweet the link to this article or share it with your Facebook friends.



Saturday, February 04, 2017

Is She Cheating on You While You Watch the Super Bowl Game?


It’s not uncommon for cheaters to use the “Super Bowl abili” to cheat on their mates on Super Bowl Sunday.  Could your wife or girlfriend be cheating on you while you watch the Super Bowl game?
If she has a secret lover, she knows you’ll be too engrossed in the Super Bowl game to know or care where she is while the game is going on, or to even realize she’s not at home or at her girlfriend’s place where she said she would be. .  She’s free to hook up with her secret lover without raising your suspicions, or worrying about getting caught.
If you think your wife or girlfriend has plans to use the Super Bowl alibi on you try one of the tips or suggestions below:
●  Ask her what she plans to do or where she plans to be while you’re watching the Super Bowl game.
●  If you plan to watch the at a friend’s place or at a sports bar and she plans to stay at home, leave something behind in an obvious place – a door key (make sure you have a duplicate), your cap, watch, your cigarettes - whatever.  To verify that she’s still at home, call her 15 – 20 minutes after you leave and ask her to check and see if it’s there.  If she’s still at home she’ll check and of course,  tell you that it is.  If she’s not at home – well, who knows what she might say?  
●  Call or text her a couple of times while the game is in progress.  Does she call or text you back within a reasonable period of time?  Does she ignore you?  Is her phone turned off?  Is she missing in action?
●  If your suspicions are really strong, you could always change your mind at the last minute, or double back after you leave and take her out for dinner while the game is on.  If your suspicions prove to be true, she will probably panic and have to make a quick phone call or send a text to alert her lover of the change in plans.  If your suspicions are wrong, no harm, no foul.  You may actually gain points with her because you’ve her know that being with her means more to you than watching the Super Bowl game.
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