tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-114563572024-02-07T21:04:37.119-05:00Infidelity AdviceThis is the sister site to www.RealLifeInfidelity.com by infidelity expert Ruth Houston, author of Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs. To receive monthly infidelity-related information including tips, little-known facts, and practical advice from infidelity expert Ruth Houston, on dealing with all aspects of infidelity, send an e-mail to InfidelityAtoZ@gmail.com .Ruth Houstonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17834512869492131227noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11456357.post-71052731921592102762017-01-17T00:23:00.000-05:002017-01-17T09:50:54.036-05:00Do NOT Rely on the Top 10 Signs of Infidelity <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;">There are “top 10 lists of infidelity signs” all over
the internet. But you should never rely solely on one of these lists to tell if
you have a cheating mate. You can be
easily misled if you do. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;">Over reliance on one of
these so-called “signs of infidelity lists” can lull you into a false sense of
security and put you in the awkward position of being the last to know. Or it could also cause you to falsely accuse
an innocent mate. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;">Here’s why:<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<b><span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;">How You Can Be Deceived<o:p></o:p></span></b></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;">Not seeing any of the “classic
signs of infidelity” is no guarantee that you have a faithful mate. Since these signs are all over the Internet, a
cheater can easily find them. So these
are the first signs the cheater will cover up.
</span><span style="background: white; font-family: "arial" , "sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt;">After all, how hard can it be to cover up 10
signs?</span><span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;">On the other hand, seeing
one or more of the so-called "top 10 infidelity signs" may not
necessarily mean your partner is having an affair. There are a number of reasons totally unrelated
to infidelity why your spouse or significant other might display one or more of
these signs. For example, some of the
signs of infidelity on a typical “top 10 list” are also indicative of someone
with a drug, alcohol, or gambling problem – or someone planning a surprise for
their mate. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;"><b>A</b> <b>Typical Top 10 List</b> <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;">Here are the signs of infidelity that usually appear
on a typical “top 10 list”<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;">1. Frequent, unaccounted for absences.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;">2. Suspicious phone behavior <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;">3. Coming home late from work <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;">4. Money missing from the bank account<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;">5. Numerous lies or excuses<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;">6. Increased concern about clothing or physical
appearance<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;">7. Unusual/ unexplained charges on the credit card
bill<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;">8. Complaints, arguments, picking fights over trivial
things<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;">9. Decrease in sex life<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;">10. Lipstick, make-up, cologne/perfume on collar or
other areas of clothing<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<b><span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;">The Problem with The Top 10 Signs<o:p></o:p></span></b></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;">Knowing the top 10 signs of infidelity won’t help you
catch a cheating mate. When it comes to something as serious as
infidelity, <span style="background: white;">there are far more than 10 factors
involved. </span>It’s
impossible to determine whether or not mate is cheating on the basis of a mere 10
signs. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;">What then, should you do if you suspect
infidelity?<b><o:p></o:p></b></span></div>
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<b><span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;">Focus on 21 Areas of Concern<o:p></o:p></span></b></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;">To really make an accurate
assessment, you should focus on </span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt;">21 areas
of concern. There
are 21 major categories of infidelity signs.
Each category consists of from 19 to 92 signs. Some of the signs are obvious. But the majority are subtle and easy to
overlook. Since no two cheaters will display the exact same signs, knowing what
to look for is the key.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt;">To give you an idea of the type and
number of infidelity signs in each category, I’ve listed five of the <b>21 major categories</b> below: <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<b><span style="font-family: "arial" , "sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt;">CONVERSATIONAL CLUES <o:p></o:p></span></b></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt;">What the cheater chooses or refuses to
talk about can alert you that he or she is having an affair. They may start mentioning
new people, places or things, while the people, places and things they used to
talk about are no longer a part of their conversation. There are <b>70 conversational clues</b> you can listen
for that can give you valuable information about your partner's affair. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<b><span style="font-family: "arial" , "sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt;">HOW HE OR SHE RELATES TO YOU <o:p></o:p></span></b></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt;">The cheater's involvement with someone
else will cause him or her to treat you differently -- even on a subconscious
level - in over <b>70 different ways</b>. This is a key area where if you know what to
look for, you can spot telltale signs of infidelity that even a private
investigator might overlook.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<b><span style="font-family: "arial" , "sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt;">HIS OR HER BEHAVIOR AROUND THE OPPOSITE SEX <o:p></o:p></span></b></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt;">Studies show that a cheater is most
likely to have an affair with someone they already know -- a neighbor,
co-worker, business associate or family friend. If you know what to look for,
there are <b>71 signs</b> of infidelity
that can help you figure out who the other woman or other man might be. The way the cheater acts around their secret
lover will usually give them away. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<b><span style="font-family: "arial" , "sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt;">DAY-TO-DAY BEHAVIOR <o:p></o:p></span></b></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt;">Most people have a basic routine they
usually follow each day. A cheater will often display a dozen or more of the <b>92 deviations</b> from their normal pattern
of behavior. These deviations are
important telltale signs.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<b><span style="font-family: "arial" , "sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt;">PHYSICAL APPEARANCE <o:p></o:p></span></b></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt;">A cheater will express a sudden desire
to look more attractive. He or she will
begin to enhance or upgrade his or her appearance in some way. So if your mate suddenly embarks on a drastic
makeover, it's probably to impress their lover, not you. There are at least <b>76 different changes</b> in wardrobe,
grooming habits, and personal hygiene which indicate that he or she is having
an affair.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt;">(For a complete list of the 21 major categories,
<a href="http://ishecheatingonyou.blogspot.com/2017/01/major-categories-of-infidelity-signs.html">click
here</a>)<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<b><span style="font-family: "arial" , "sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt;">Don’t Be
Misled<o:p></o:p></span></b></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;">Do not rely on the presence
or absence of the top 10 signs of infidelity, or you could easily be
deceived. You don’t want to jump to
conclusions and accuse an innocent mate. Nor do you want to set yourself up to
be the last to know. For two “real-life”
accounts of j</span><strong><span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 10pt; font-weight: normal;">ust how deceptive
these top 10 lists can be,</span></strong><span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;"> see the article entitled </span><a href="https://reallifeinfidelity.blogspot.com/2017/01/how-2-women-were-fooled-by-top-10-signs.html"><b><span style="background: white; font-family: "arial" , "sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt;">How 2 Women Were Fooled by the Top 10 Signs of Infidelity.</span></b><span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;"> <o:p></o:p></span></a></div>
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<b><span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;">NOTE</span></b><span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;">: The
popular infidelity reference book <b><i><a href="http://ishecheatingonyou.blogspot.com/2017/01/is-he-cheating-on-you-829-telltale-signs.html">Is
He Cheating on You? 829 Telltale Signs</a></i></b> goes into much greater detail
about the 21 major categories of infidelity signs.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;">In this day and age, if your spouse or significant other is cheating
on you, you can’t afford to be the last one to know. There are several reasons why.</span><br />
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Each day you delay finding out the truth, you run one or more of
the risks below:<br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;">● Your cheating
spouse could drain your joint bank accounts to finance their extramarital
affair<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;">● Your cheating
spouse could max out your joint credit cards buying gifts for his or her secret
lover and stick you with the bills.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;">● Your cheating
husband or boyfriend could get his mistress pregnant, and end up having to pay
child support.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;">● Your cheating
wife or girlfriend could become pregnant by another man and attempt to pass the
child off as yours.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;">● Your cheating
mate could put your health at risk by exposing you to HIV/AIDS or some other
sexually transmitted disease, if he or she is having unprotected sex.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;">● Your cheating
spouse or significant other could leave you and move in with his or her lover
before you even realize what’s been going on.</span><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;"> </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;">● Your cheating
husband or wife could surprise you with divorce papers that they’ve had
secretly prepared behind your back. </span></div>
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Being the last to know not
only leaves you open to embarrassment, finding out too late could also cost you
your marriage/relationship, your money, or your health.<br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;">The sooner you spot the early warning signs of infidelity or the
signs of an affair in progress, the better your chances are of nipping your
mate’s affair in the bud, before it reaches the point of no return. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;">And the better your chances are of minimizing much of the legal,
financial, and emotional damage infidelity can cause.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;">Your future and the future of your marriage or relationship could
very well depend on your ability to spot the signs of infidelity in time.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;">Are you starting to realize see why you can’t afford to be the
last one to know if your spouse or significant other is cheating on you?</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 13.3333px;">This is where a good infidelity reference book can help. <b><i><a href="http://ishecheatingonyou.blogspot.com/2017/01/is-he-cheating-on-you-829-telltale-signs.html">Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs</a></i></b> makes it easy to spot the telltale signs of an affair before it's too late. This comprehensive guide to the warning signs of infidelity documents hundreds of cheating signs – all of which you can easily find using only your eyes and ears, your personal knowledge of your mate and the information in this book. No special skills or equipment are needed. <i>Despite the title, most of the signs in the book apply to both cheating women and cheating men.</i></span></div>
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brief “<b>Is SHE Cheating?”</b>
section for men.) <o:p></o:p></i></span></div>
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