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Infidelity Articles You May Have Missed

2011-03-06T05:59:00.004-05:00

Here are some popular infidelity articles from my National Infidelity column that you may have missed.

To read these articles just click on the title, or visit www.NationalInfidelity.com and scroll through the list.

To make sure you don’t miss any upcoming infidelity articles, bookmark the National Infidelity page, or subscribe to the column at www.NationalInfidelity.com

Infidelity Traps - 12 Ways People Unintentionally Get Drawn into Cheating on Their Mates
There are some very commonplace, and seemingly innocent situations, behaviors or circumstances that can set the stage for infidelity, or lead a person to unintentionally cheat on his or her mate. This article tells you what to be aware of, and what you and your mate might want to avoid.

6 Signs YOU May Be The Other Woman in His Life - Are You Dating a Married Man?
You could unknowingly be the mistress of a married man who is cheating on his wife. Have you ever considered the possibility that while he may not be cheating ON you, he could be cheating WITH you. This article gives tips on how you can tell.

Spying on a Cheater Can Land You in Jail Unless You Do It Legally - Here’s HowSome of today’s most popular ways of spying on a cheater are illegal. This article explains what you can, and can’t do to spy on a cheating mate, if you don’t want to end up in jail.

40 Fatal Signs That You’re about to Be Dumped
Marriages and committed relationships rarely ever come to a screeching halt. There are usually warning signs along the way. Here are 40 subtle signs that your marriage and relationship is in serious trouble, and that your spouse or significant other is on the verge of calling it quits.

How to Get a Cheater to Tell You the Truth about His Affair
A cheater will rarely come clean about his affair the first time you ask him about it. But there are certain things you need to know about his affair, before you can make an intelligent decision on whether to leave or give him a second chance. This article tells how to get a cheating man to tell you the truth about his affair. See also 9 Reasons a Cheater Will Lie About His Affair

The Best Investment You Can Make in Your Relationship for 2011
Whether you’re married, single, or between relationships - whether your spouse or significant other is cheating on you or not, a good infidelity reference book is the best investment you can make in your relationship. It will serve you well for many years to come. This article explains why.

Who You Should and Shouldn’t Tell That He’s Cheating on You
If your spouse or significant other is cheating on you, there are certain people you shouldn’t tell. Telling the wrong person can complicate matters or come back to haunt you in ways you least expect. This article discusses who you should and shouldn’t tell – and why.

25 Reasons Why Men Cheat
Men cheat on their wives or girlfriends for a variety of reasons. Here’s a laundry list of the 25 most common reasons men cheat on their mates. Keep in mind that most men cheat for a combination of these 25 reasons.

How Can I Keep Him From Cheating on Me?
With infidelity constantly in the news, women want to know what they can do to safeguard their marriages or relationships from an affair. In this article, a nationally-recognized infidelity expert offers some surprising advice on keeping infidelity at bay.

12 Valid Reasons to Snoop if You Suspect Your Mate May Be Cheating on You
Some people say you shouldn’t spy on your mate. But there are some very good reasons why you should search for signs of infidelity if you suspect that your spouse or significant other might be having an affair, and why you can’t afford to be the last to know.

7 Steps to Catch a Cheating Mate
Catching a cheating spouse or significant other does not have to be expensive or complicated. You don’t need to hire a private investigator or buy a lot of fancy surveillance equipment to find out the truth. Just follow the 7 easy steps in this article.

7 Signs He Might Be the Cheating Kind
Some men are more prone than others to cheat on their mates. Here are 7 clues that your husband or boyfriend may be a potential cheater.

He May Be More Likely to Cheat If He, or the Woman Near Him is Wearing Red
Studies have shown that the color red may make your spouse or significant other susceptible to infidelity in more ways than one. Find out how this color can affect your mate, and what you can do about it.

Online Resources to Help You Catch or Monitor a Cheating Mate
If you have, or think you have a cheating mate, there are 3 types of online resources that can help you in almost any infidelity situation you’re likely to encounter, from discovery to recovery. Whether you suspect infidelity, are trying to deal with a cheater in your life, or trying to reconcile with a cheating mate, an online service can help you in one of 10 related situations.

FREE Infidelity Tip Sheets for Men and Women with Cheating Mates
Free infidelity tip sheets and special reports filled with practical, immediately usable advice on a variety of infidelity topics. Compiled by an infidelity expert, and available FREE of charge by e-mail request.

MORE POPULAR INFIDELITY ARTICLES

How Cheating Men Use the Gym or Health Club as an Excuse to Cover up Their Affair

14 Kinds of Women Most Likely to Cheat on Their Mate

8 Signs of Infidelity that Expose a Cheater Who is Trying to Cover His Tracks

Is Your Partner Cheating Online? – Here’s How You Can Tell

Should You Take a Cheater Back? – How to Decide

When to Give Cheater a Second Chance

How to Sue Your Husband’s Mistress – Basic Things You Need to Know

What NOT to Do if He's Cheating on You

Tell Your Infidelity Story in a TV Documentary on Oprah Winfrey Network (OWN)

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What Can Happen to a Father Who's a Victim of Female Infidelity

2010-06-22T15:46:00.002-04:00

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If you’re a father, and your wife or girlfriend is cheating on you, you should give serious thought to how you and your children can be affected by their mother’s affair.

Fathers who become victims of female infidelity can be adversely affected in many ways.

Problems Faced by Fathers with Cheating Wives or Girlfriends

The article, entitled When Fathers are Victims of Female Infidelity, points out many of the problems men with cheating wives or girlfriends often encounter.

It also highlights a number of indignities, you, as a father may have to endure if the mother of your children is having an affair.

More Information for Men Who Are Victims of Infidelity

For more information on what you and your children may have to go through, please click here to read the article entitled When Fathers are Victims of Female Infidelity

or

Go to the National Infidelity Examiner page at Examiner.com where you will find the article mentioned above, as well as other articles with helpful advice for men who are victims of female infidelity, including the articles listed below:

14 Kinds of Women Most Likely to Cheat on Their Mate

Study on Mothers Who Cheat

Is She Cheating? Most Husbands and Boyfriends Find Out Too Late

How Men Are Affected by Female Infidelity

Top 10 Reasons Why Men and Woman Cheat

Is She Cheating? – 21 Ways You Can Tell (free tip sheet)
e-mail www.InfidelityInfo@gmail.com with "Is She Cheating - IA" in the subject line.

What Should I Do If I Think He or She is Cheating on Me?

When Should You Hire a Private Investigator to Check Out a Cheating Mate?

What NOT to Do If He’s (She’s) Cheating on You

Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs - soft cover book (Signs apply to both cheating women and cheating men)

Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs (e-book version contains bonus section for men entitled Is SHE Cheating?

Free Infidelity Tip sheets and Special Reports

Infidelity Resources to Help You Catch a Cheating Mate

How to Sue the Other Woman – 4 Things You Should Know

2010-05-07T15:10:00.009-04:00

Alienation of affection laws allow a wife to sue her husband’s mistress.

If your husband is cheating on you, suing the Other Woman is probably starting to sound like an excellent idea. Especially with so many stories of wives suing mistresses recently in the news.

Before you rush out to retain an attorney so you can sue the Other Woman, there are 4 things you should know:

--- what an alienation of affection lawsuit involves

--- hidden benefits of suing the Other Woman

--- 3 things you need to do first

--- how to sue the Other Woman even if you don’t live in one of the 7 “ alienation of affection” states.

The article entitled How to Sue Your Husband’s Mistress – Basic Things You Need to Know
covers all 4 points and includes additional tips on how suing the Other Woman can work to your advantage.

A Preemptive Strike that Can Save Your Marriage

Many betrayed wives think of alienation of affection lawsuits as a form of revenge. But these lawsuits can actually be a sneaky way to phase the Other Woman out of your husband’s life, so you can get your marriage back on track.

There are some definite benefits to suing the Other Woman, even if you don’t follow through with the lawsuit, or even if you sue and can’t collect.

How to Sue Your Husband’s Mistress – Basic Things You Need to Know contains an overview of how alienation of affection lawsuits work, in addition to other practical information and several useful, but little known tips.

Click here now to read How to Sue Your Husband’s Mistress – Basic Things You Need to Know

For more practical information on how to deal with your husband’s mistress, see:

Suing Your Husband’s Mistress for Alienation of Affection and Other Legal Forms of Revenge - part 2

Betrayed Wife Sues Husband’s Mistress for $9 Million and Wins – You Can Too

How to Legally and Financially Get Revenge on a Cheating Mate (free tip sheet)

Will He Leave You for Her?

What You Need to Know About Your Husband’s Mistress and Why

5 Common Excuses Cheating Men Use to See Their Mistresses

When Should You Hire a Private Investigator to Check Out a Cheating Mate?

How to Catch a Cheating Husband

How Betrayed Wives and Other Infidelity Victims Get Revenge on a Cheating Mate

Is He Cheating? Is She Cheating? – 21 Ways You Can Tell (free tip sheet)

Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs (soft cover)

Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs (e-book version with affair recovery information)

Free Infidelity Tip Sheets and Special Reports

Infidelity Resources to Help You Catch a Cheating Mate

For more practical, immediately-usable infidelity advice
on all aspects of infidelity from discovery to recovery,
visit my National Infidelity Examiner page at Examiner.com
where you will find over 150 helpful articles .

For a shortcut to that will take you directly there, go to http://www.ruthsexaminerpage.com/

What Women Can Learn from How Sandra Bullock Chose to Handle Jesse James’ Infidelity

2010-05-02T09:40:00.005-04:00

Wives with cheating husbands can learn some valuable lessons from the way Sandra Bullock chose to handle Jesse James’ multiple affairs. See Sandra Bullock’s Strategy for Surviving Infidelity Can Help Other Women with Cheating Mates

A New Chapter in Sandra Bullock’s Life

By filing for divorce from Jesse James, and proceeding with the adoption of an African-American baby boy as a single parent, Sandra Bullock showed the world that she has moved on, and has begun a new chapter in her life. See Celebrity Infidelity Update - Sandra Bullock Files for Divorce from Jesse James and Adopts a Baby Boy

Children Can Help Cushion the Blow

While Jesse James was undergoing sex addiction treatment at a rehab in Arizona, Sandra was caring for her 3 stepchildren (Jesse’s kids) and adjusting to her role as a mother to Louis Bardo Bullock, her newly adopted son. The new baby, and Sandra’s stepchildren may have been instrumental in softening the blow of Jesse’s betrayal.

Successful Strategies Other Betrayed Wives Can Employ

Other women in similar situations can learn much from the way Sandra Bullock handled the devastating betrayal of the man she loved.

The article entitled Sandra Bullock’s Strategy for Surviving Infidelity Can Help Other Women with Cheating Mates, will give you a closer look at some of the successful strategies Sandra Bullock employed in dealing with Jesse James’ multiple affairs.

This article discusses 10 valuable lessons other wives can learn from Sandra Bullock on how to survive infidelity, including the ones below:

--- the best way to clear your mind and sort out the facts

--- how to keep from obsessing about his betrayal

--- what to do about your cheating husband’s mistress

--- how to regain control of your life after learning about the affair.

--- how your children can cushion the blow of betrayal, and help you heal

--- the role of family and friends

--- how not to let negative thoughts and emotions erode your mind

--- how to deal with your desire for revenge

--- how to focus on the future instead of dwelling on the past

Click here to read Sandra Bullock’s Strategy for Surviving Infidelity Can Help Other Women with Cheating Mates

For more advice on coping with infidelity, see:

What NOT to Do If He’s Cheating on You

5 Things You SHOULDN’T Do If He’s Cheating on You (free tip sheet)

Be Careful Who You Tell That He’s Cheating on You

Will He Leave You for Her?

What you Need to Know About Your Husband’s Mistress and Why

Are Wives to Blame When Husbands Cheat?

Go or Stay? – How to Decide Whether to Give a Cheater a Second Chance (free tip sheet)

Why Revenge Cheating and Retaliatory Affairs Don’t Work in Trying to Get Even With a Cheating Mate

How to Legally and Financially Get Revenge on a Cheating Mate (free tip sheet)

For more about the Sandra Bullock – Jesse James infidelity scandal , or Jesse James’ mistress, Michelle “Bombshell” McGee” from an infidelity expert’s point of view, see:

Wives of 4 Cheating Celebrities File for Divorce This Month

Celebrity Infidelity Update - Sandra Bullock Files for Divorce from Jesse James and Adopts a Baby Boy

Celebrity Infidelity Update – All the Latest Details on Cheating Celebrities in the News

What Celebrity Mistresses are Doing to Extend Their 15 Minutes of Fame

Celebrity Mistress Update – The Latest Report on Celebrity Mistresses in the News

Could You Be Duped into Dating a Married Man Like Jesse James Duped Michelle Bombshell McGee?

What Michelle McGee, Jamie Jungers and Other Celebrity Mistresses Are Doing to Make News

Jesse James’ Mistress, Michelle Bombshell McGee Appears Live in Las Vegas

Why Some Cheating Men - Like Tiger Woods - Will Never Cheat Again

2010-02-23T16:44:00.003-05:00

If you’re dealing with a cheating man like Tiger Woods, and you’re wondering if he’ll cheat on you again, you’ll be interested in the information below.

While some cheating husbands and boyfriends repeatedly cheat on their mates, others never cheat again.

Tiger Woods is one of those men – despite the fact that he cheated on Elin Nordegren with multiple mistresses over a period of several years.

Your cheating husband or boyfriend may be one of these men, too.

Many Cheaters Have Multiple Affairs

Several years ago, I came across a study which found that 2/3 of the men who cheated on their mates had more than one affair. 25% of those men had 4 or more affairs.

My own research over the past 16 years bears that out.

Having interviewed or consulted with thousands cheating men from all walks of life during that time, I’ve found that most cheaters have more than one affair.

What About the Men Who Never Cheated Again?

But some cheating men, even men who previously had multiple affairs, reached a point where they never cheated again.

I wanted to find out why.

What kept certain cheating men from having more affairs?

Why was it that a small number of men never cheated again?

Why Some Cheaters Never Cheated Again

This is what I found out:

Cheaters become repeaters if they don’t suffer any negative consequences as a result of their infidelity.

The more negative consequences a cheater suffered because of his infidelity, the less likely he was to cheat again.

Why Tiger Woods and Other Cheaters Won’t Cheat Again

That’s why Tiger Woods, and other cheating men like him, are unlikely to ever cheat again.

Look at the sheer number and magnitude of negative consequences Tiger Woods has suffered because of his cheating.

Because of this, Tiger falls into the category of cheating men who will probably never cheat again.

Tiger’s marriage and family are hanging in the balance. His reputation has been ruined. His golf career is hold while he desperately tries to make amends to his wife and get his marriage back on track. And that’s just the tip of the iceberg.

NOTE: For more detailed information on this, see my article entitled Why Tiger Woods Will Probably Never Cheat Again.

This article covers more than a dozen negative consequences Tiger Woods has suffered, and is still experiencing, as a result of his multiple affairs.

Will Your Husband or Boyfriend Cheat Again?

Has your husband or boyfriend suffered any negative consequences as a result of cheating on you?

If his affair has caused all kinds of problems in his life – if he lost or came close to losing you, his marriage/relationship, his job, his money, his reputation, his health (HIV/AIDS or other STDs), his standing in the community, the respect of those who know him - he may never cheat again.

Other articles with helpful information based on the Tiger Woods infidelity scandal, are posted on my National Infidelity Examiner page, (www.RuthsExaminerPage.com) including the articles below:

Why Tiger Woods Will Probably Never Cheat Again

Go or Stay – How to Decide Whether to Give a Cheater a Second Chance (free tip sheet)

Why Women Stay with Men Who Cheat

What Are the Major Obstacles to Taking a Cheater Back?

What Cheating Husbands Can Learn from the Tiger Woods Infidelity Scandal

How Good Men End Up Cheating on Their Mates

Does Tiger Woods Fit the Profile of a Sex Addict? Check This List If You Really Want to Know

Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs (e-book version with Affair Recovery information)

More infidelity articles with practical advice visit my National Infidelity Examiner Page at Examiner.com

Or see www.RuthsExaminerPage.com

Today is Mistress Day – Do You Know Where Your Husband Is?

2010-02-13T22:15:00.002-05:00

Today, February 13, the day before Valentine’s Day, is known as Mistress Day.

It’s the day most cheating husbands usually arrange to spend time with their mistress, since they’ll spending Valentine’s Day, February 14th, with their wife.

Regardless of whether he’s bought his mistress flowers, jewelry, or lingerie for Valentine's Day, he’ll make every effort to deliver it to her in person.

That’s why Mistress Day is the ideal day to catch your cheating mate.

Do you know where your husband is, or where he’s been all day?

Did he follow his usual Saturday routine?
Or did he go missing for an extended period of time today?

Does he have plans for tonight that don’t involve you?

Tips on How to Catch a Cheating Valentine

For tips on how to catch your cheating husband, or how to sabotage his plans for Mistress Day, see the article entitled Catch Your Cheating Spouse on Mistress Day, February 13th

Click the link above or go to my National Infidelity Examiner page at Examiner.com http://www.NationalInfidelityExaminerPage.com

While you’re there, make sure you check out the article entitled Valentine's Day Gifts Will Expose Many Cheating Mates.

This article describes 3 ways that many cheating Valentines will be exposed by the Valentine’s Day gifts they give or receive this year.

More Articles on Valentine’s Day Infidelity and Cheating Valentines

As part of my 7th annual Valentine’s Day Infidelity Awareness Campaign, I’ll be posting other articles on how to catch a cheating Valentine throughout the Valentine season - February 13th,14th, and 15th on my National Infidelity Examiner page at Examiner.com

Visit http://www.NationalInfidelityExaminerPage.com bookmark the page, and come back to read the helpful cheating Valentine information that will be posted there over the next 3 days .

For more help in catching a cheating mate, send for a free copy of the special infidelity report Is He Cheating? Is She Cheating? 21 Ways You Can Tell, by e-mailing InfidelityInfo@gmail.com with 21 ways-Bv in the subject line.

When You Marry a Potential Cheater Like Jenny Sanford Did

2010-02-05T13:59:00.005-05:00

In her book , Staying True, Jenny Sanford, tells how Mark Sanford insisted on removing the fidelity clause from their marriage vows.

By doing so, Sanford signaled his intent early on, and labeled himself a potential cheater.

Despite her misgivings, Jenny Sanford married him anyway

If, like Jenny Sanford, you knowingly marry (or date) a potential cheater, there are precautions you should take to decrease the likelihood that he will actually have an affair.

Free Infidelity Report Tells How to Handle a Potential Cheater

The free infidelity report entitled, “How to Deal with a Potential Cheater,” lists several successful strategies you can use to avoid a lot of hurt, humiliation and heartbreak later on, if you’re married to a man who’s likely to cheat on you.

To request a free copy of this infidelity report by infidelity expert Ruth Houston, e-mail InfidelityAdvice@gmail.com with the words "Potential Cheater Report-blg" in the subject line.

Not Sure if He’s a Potential Cheater?

Not all potential cheaters signal their intent like Mark Sanford did.

Most men who are prone to infidelity don’t reveal themselves right away.

But there is a way you can tell.

If you’re not sure whether or not you’re dating or married to a man who is a potential cheater, take the 7-question Potential Cheater’s Quiz (also known as the Will He Cheat Quiz) posted on the National Infidelity Examiner page at Examiner.com, where you will find over 100 other articles containing cutting edge infidelity information and practical infidelity advice.

The short, but highly accurate 7-question quiz will tell you whether or not you’re involved with a man who is prone to infidelity.

By looking at certain things about your husband or boyfriend - his life experiences, family history, character flaws or personality traits, your answers to the Potential Cheater’s Quiz will tell you if your spouse or significant other is a man who is likely to cheat on his mate.

Click here to go directly to the Will He Cheat Quiz or Potential Cheater’s Quiz.

Or you can request a free copy of the Potential Cheater’s Quiz by sending an e-mail to InfidelityInfo@gmail.com with “Cheater’s Quiz –blg” in the subject line.

If you already know he's a potential cheater, request the free infidelity report How to Deal with a Potential Cheater, so you'll know what to do. E-mail InfidelityAdvice@gmail.com with Potential Cheater Report-blg in the subject line.

Cutting Edge Infidelity Information and Practical Infidelity Advice

For more information about infidelity, cheating mates, and extramarital affairs from an infidelity expert, visit my National Infidelity Examiner pages at Examiner.com, where new articles with cutting edge infidelity advice are posted every week.

You will find over 100 articles with containing cutting edge infidelity information, and the latest infidelity advice, including the articles listed below.

Will He Leave You for Her?

What You Need to Know About Your Husband’s Mistress and Why

Will He Cheat on You? – a 7-Question Quiz (Potential Cheater’s Quiz)

Will You Be the Next Wife or Girlfriend to Become a Victim of Infidelity? - a Quiz

Happy Husbands Cheat, Too

Why the Wife is Still the Last to Know

3 Things a Wife Stands to Lose by Being the Last to Know

Why Most Cheaters Don’t Get Caught

Don't Be Misled by the Top 10 Signs of Infidelity

What Should I Do If I Think He or She is Cheating on Me?

What NOT to Do If He’s Cheating on You

Why Women Stay with Men Who Cheat

What are the Major Obstacles to Taking a Cheater Back?

13 Things Everyone Should Know about Signs of Infidelity

Is He Cheating? – Is She Cheating? 21 Ways You Can Tell (free tip sheet)

Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs (softcover book)

Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs (e-book version with Affair Recovery information)

When Should You Hire a Private Investigator to Check Out a Cheating Mate

The Best Investment You Can Make in Your Relationship for 2010

Free Infidelity Tip Sheets and Special Reports

Infidelity Resources to Help You Catch a Cheating Mate

Bookmark the National Infidelity Examiner page (http://www.nationalinfidelityexaminerpage.com/ ) and check back often, because new articles are posted every week.

Could Your Cheating Husband or Boyfriend be a Sex Addict, Too?

2010-02-05T12:54:00.002-05:00

Tiger Woods is nearing the end of his treatment for sex addiction at the Pine Grove facility in Hattiesburg, Mississippi.

If you’re dealing with a cheating husband or boyfriend, you may be wondering if he could be a sex addict too.

I’ve received so many questions from you about sex addicts and sex addiction that I’ve compiled a list of behaviors common to sex addicts which you can check and compare with the behavior and characteristics of your spouse or significant other.

Especially if he's a serial cheater.

Since the list is a little lengthy for this blog, I ‘ve posted it on my National Infidelity Examiner page under the title Does Tiger Woods Fit The Profile of a Sex Addict? Check This List if You Really Want to Know.

The updated list of 25 behaviors and characteristics common to sex addicts is based on information gathered from several medical sites.

Although a qualified medical professional is the only one who can make an accurate diagnosis about such things, you can take a look at the list of common behaviors and make an educated guess.

Medical Professionals Disagree about Sex Addiction

Only a qualified medical professional can make an accurate diagnosis.

But even in medical circles sex addiction is a controversial topic on which even medical professionals don’t all agree.

Many don’t even acknowledge sex addiction as a “legitimate” addiction.

However a growing number of medical professionals believe that compulsive sexual behavior ( sex addiction) is a very real disorder that affect an estimated 16 million Americans of both sexes, from high profile cheaters like Tiger Woods, Steve Phillips, and David Duchovny, to the man next door.

Articles on the Tiger Woods Infidelity Scandal

For articles on the Tiger Woods sex scandal from an infidelity expert’s point of view, see

Does Tiger Woods Fit The Profile of a Sex Addict? Check This List if You Really Want to Know

What Cheating Husbands Can Learn from the Tiger Woods Infidelity Scandal

6 Things Tiger Woods Did that Are Common to Most Cheating Men

14 Reasons Why Tiger Woods and Other Rich and Famous Men Cheat

Did Tiger Woods REALLY Have Sex with Other Men?

Tiger Woods’ Infidelity Due to Sex Addiction Plus Drugs that Boosted His Sex Drive

New Details about Tiger Woods Secret Love Life Reveal He May Be Addicted to Sex

The Tiger Woods Sex Scandal from an Infidelity Expert’s Point of View

These, and other infidelity articles can be found on the National Infidelity Examiner pages at Examiner.com at http://www.examiner.com/x-17416-Infidelity-Examiner or at http://www.nationalinfidelityexaminerpage.com/

All About Getting Revenge on a Cheating Mate

2010-01-05T16:01:00.007-05:00

Have you ever wanted to get revenge on a cheating mate?

Most infidelity victims feel this way.

It’s common for a person who has been cheated on to feel an overwhelming desire to seek revenge.

5 Articles on Revenge

There are now 5 articles about getting revenge on a cheating mate on the National Infidelity Examiner page at Examiner.com. Click here to read them all, or use the individual links for each article at the end of this post.

The Need to Even the Score

The hurt and anger you feel at being betrayed by someone you love is usually accompanied by a strong urge to do something to get even with the person who caused you so much heartbreak, humiliation and pain.

Many people, especially women, resort to revenge cheating or retaliatory affairs as a way to even the score, or punish their cheating mate.

The new revenge article I just posted at Examiner.com, entitled Why Revenge Cheating and Retaliatory Affairs Don’t Work When Trying to Get Even With a Cheating Mate, explains how revenge cheating or retaliatory affairs can backfire.

More Articles About Revenge on a Cheating Mate

Other revenge articles posted on the National Infidelity Examiner page discuss why the urge to get revenge is to strong, creative ways some infidelity victims get revenge, forms of revenge to avoid, and how one woman accidentally discovered the best way of all to get revenge on her cheating mate.

The complete list is below:

Why Revenge Cheating and Retaliatory Affairs Don’t work When Trying to Get Even With a Cheating Mate

3 Types of Revenge Cheating or Retaliatory Affairs

How Betrayed Wives and Other Infidelity Victims Get Revenge on Their Cheating Mates

More Women are Resorting to Violent Acts of Revenge

William Taylor’s I Cheated Sign and Other Forms of Revenge

2 Free Tip Sheets

There are also 2 free tip sheets below, which you can request by e-mail from the list of free infidelity tip sheets and special reports at this link.

How to Legally and Financially Get Revenge on a Cheating Mate (free tip sheet)

How Wives with Cheating Husband Can Gain the Upper Hand (free tip sheet)

For the latest information and advice on infidelity, cheating mates and extramarital affairs, visit the National Infidelity Examiner page at Examiner.com

Tiger Woods a Sex Addict? - Judge for Yourself

2009-12-22T13:15:00.002-05:00

Sources have reported that Tiger Woods may be the victim of dual addictions -- sex addiction plus an addiction to prescription drugs Vicodin and Ambien, which as a side effect, boost the male sex drive.

If true, this puts Tiger Woods behavior in an entirely different light.

He may actually have medical reasons for his multiple mistresses and his serial infidelity.

Is Tiger REALLY a Sex Addict?

I’ve received an avalanche of questions from those of you who must have also seen these reports and want to know whether it’s true that Tiger Woods is addicted to sex.

Many of you, no doubt, recall what I’ve I said about serial cheaters often using sex addiction as an excuse.

However, based on what I’ve been able to find out about sex addiction, this does not appear to be the case with Tiger Woods. From what I’ve read in the media about this whole Tiger Woods infidelity scandal, it appears that Tiger may be a true sex addict.

Check the List and Decide for Yourself

However, to help answer your questions, and gain a better understanding of sex addiction, I checked several medical sources and a list of characteristics and behaviors common to sex addicts.

Since the list is a bit long for a blog post I’ve included the list in an article posted on my National Infidelity Examiner page entitled Is Tiger Woods a Sex Addict? Judge for Yourself. You can read it here.

While it’s true that only a qualified medical professional can make an accurate diagnosis, sex addiction is a controversial topic on which many medical professionals don’t agree.

That’s why I invite you to check the list and decide for yourself. In the comment section below the article, let me know what you think.

To read the “Sex Addict” list, click here, or follow the link below.

http://www.examiner.com/examiner/x-17416-Infidelity-Examiner~y2009m12d21-Is-Tiger-Woods-a-sex-addict--Judge-for-yourself

Articles about Tiger Woods and Sex Addiction

Is Tiger Woods a Sex Addict? Judge for yourself

Tiger Woods Infidelity Due to Sex Addiction Plus Drugs that Boosted His Sex Drive

New Details about Tiger Woods Secret Love Life Reveal He May Be Addicted to Sex

Other articles about the Tiger Woods Sex scandal from an infidelity expert’s point of view:

6 Things Tiger Woods Did that Are Common to Most Cheating Men

14 Reasons Why Tiger Woods and Other Rich and Famous Men Cheat

How Good Men End Up Cheating on Their Mates

Free Tip Sheet Helps Women Like Elin Nordegren Decide Whether or Not to Stay with a Cheating Mate

Was Tiger Woods’ Car Accident Caused by Infidelity?

An Infidelity Expert’s Advice to Tiger Woods Wife

What Tiger Woods’ Wife Should Do if the Infidelity Rumors Are True

More Infidelity Advice from an Expert, for Tiger Wood’s Wife Now That the Rumors are True

For the latest infidelity articles and infidelity advice, visit my National Infidelity Examiner page at Examiner.com

Shocking Statistics Prove Office Christmas Parties Lead to Workplace Affairs

2009-12-17T16:52:00.003-05:00

Office Christmas parties have become breeding grounds for workplace affairs.

Every year as part of my annual Christmas Infidelity Awareness Campaign I strongly advise everyone to accompany their spouse or significant other to the annual Christmas party at their job. Especially if you suspect, or want to prevent a workplace affair.

Look at the statistics below and you’ll see why:

In a survey conducted by Men's Health magazine, 44% of the males said they'd had an affair with a co-worker at a holiday office party at least once in their life.

In a survey by Trojan Condoms, 49% of the employees expressed their willingness to “go all the way” with a fellow employee at the Christmas party if the opportunity presented itself.

Almost 33% of those in the Trojan survey said they’d previously had sex with a colleague during or after an office Christmas party.

64% of the office workers in the OfficeSMART survey said they personally knew of affairs that started at their office Christmas party.

1 out of 5 women in the WorldWIT survey became romantically involved with a colleague at an office party. 33% of these women admitted to having an affair following their office party fling, and a year or more later, 13% of them were still romantically involved.

A London survey found that 1 in 10 respondents started a relationship at the company Christmas party. 25% of those questioned said that’s how they met their future spouse.

Your presence at your spouse or significant other’s office Christmas party can safeguard your relationship and act as a deterrent to workplace affairs. See the article entitled Attend Your Mate’s Office Christmas Party to Discourage Workplace Affairs .

Go, If You Suspect Workplace Infidelity

You should also go to the office Christmas party with your spouse or significant other, if you suspect a workplace affair. Christmas office parties have a way of revealing workplace affairs. See the article entitled Office Christmas Parties Can Reveal Workplace Affairs.

If your spouse or significant other is romantically involved with someone on their job, their behavior around each other, or body language will give them away. Of course, knowing what to look for is the key.

So before you go, make sure you get a free copy of the tip sheet entitled What to Look For at the Office Christmas Party or Similar Company Event if You Suspect a Workplace Affair. E-mail InfidelityInfo@gmail.com with the words " What to Look - b" for in the subject line.

As part of my annual Christmas Infidelity Awareness Campaign, I’ve posted a number of helpful articles on my National Infidelity Examiner page at Examiner.com, http://www.examiner.com/x-17416-Infidelity-Examiner including the articles below.

Check them out if you’ve got a cheater, or suspected cheater on your hand, so you’ll know what to do. There are plenty of other ways to catch a cheater at Christmastime. See the article entitled Attend Your Mate’s Office Christmas Party to Discourage Workplace Affairs or any of the other articles below.

Infidelity and Office Christmas Parties – The Shocking Truth

Attend Your Mate’s Office Christmas Party to Discourage Workplace Affairs

Office Christmas Parties Can Reveal Workplace Affairs

Christmas is the Ideal Time to Catch a Cheating Mate

8 Gift-related Signs of Infidelity to Be Alert for at Christmastime

13 Things Everyone Should Know About Signs of Infidelity

Is He Cheating? Is She Cheating? – 21 Ways You Can Tell (free tip sheet)

Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs (soft cover book)

Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs (e-book version with Affair Recovery Guide)

Infidelity Resources to Help You Catch a Cheating Mate

Free Infidelity Tip Sheets and Special Reports

For the latest infidelity articles and infidelity advice, visit my National Infidelity Examiner page at Examiner.com

Highlights of My Infidelity Advice to Tiger Woods Wife

2009-12-03T15:54:00.005-05:00

A few days ago I wrote an article entitled What Tiger Woods’ Wife Should Do if the Infidelity Rumors Are True. This article contained 17 suggestions as to what Elin Nordegren Woods should do if the infidelity rumors about Tiger turned out to be true.

This was a follow-up article to my previous article entitled An Infidelity Expert’s Advice to Tiger Woods Wife, which contained 18 suggestions, including coping strategies for dealing with suspected infidelity, or rumors of infidelity, and detailed information on how to go about uncovering the truth.

In view of the recent reports that Tiger Woods was involved with 3 different women – Rachel Uchitel, Jaimee Grubbs, and Kalika Moquin – I’m posting highlights from those 2 articles which appear on my National Infidelity Examiner page at Examiner.com

Women in Elin Nordegren Woods’ Situation Can Benefit from this Advice

Some of the suggestions were specific to Tiger Woods’ wife. But if you find yourself in a similar situation, you too, can benefit from this advice.

Below are 8 key points from my infidelity advice to Elin Nordegren Woods. The original articles can be found on my National Infidelity Examiner page at Examiner.com

Infidelity Advice for Tiger Woods’ Wife – 8 Key Points

1. Experts all agree that you should examine all the facts and have several non-confrontational discussions with the cheater about the cheating, so you can make an intelligent decision about what to do. Delay making a final decision about how to handle the matter until you are in possession of all the facts. See the free tip sheet entitled Go or Stay – How to Decide Whether to Give a Cheater a Second Chance.

2. Don’t speculate. Investigate. Separate rumor from fact. Since you are not bound by the same financial constraints as the average wife who finds out her husband is having an affair, hire a reputable private investigator who specializes in infidelity investigations to check out names, dates, places, incidents, and verify the facts. See the article entitled When Should You Hire a Private Investigator to Check Out a Cheating Mate?

3. Get a grip on your emotions. If you can’t discuss the situation without losing your temper, have a neutral third party present when discussing the affair. (counselor, religious leader, or trusted family friend.) You’ve already seen how quickly the situation can get out of control.

4. Try to make an accurate assessment of the situation. Determine whether or not the affairs pose a serious threat to your marriage. See the article entitled Will He Leave You for Her?

5. Don’t waste any time or energy, or lower your dignity by attempting to confront the alleged other women. ( Rachel Uchitel, Jaimee Grubbs, Kalika Moquin) This is about you and Tiger -- not about them. See the article entitled What NOT to Do If He’s Cheating on You and the free tip sheet entitled 5 Things You Shouldn’t Do If He’s Cheating on You

6. If your decision is to save your marriage, engage the services of a qualified marriage and family counselor with extensive experience in handling issues of infidelity. Not every marriage counselor is trained or experienced in handling extramarital affairs. For a referral, call the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapists (AAMFT) or visit their website. See the article entitled Why Women Stay with Men Who Cheat.

7. Get tested for HIV/AIDS even if Tiger insists that he never had unprotected sex. And insist that Tiger be tested too. Your health and maybe even your life could be at stake (One of his alleged mistresses supposedly has a history of sleeping with married men.)

8. Don’t blame yourself. See the article entitled Are Wives to Blame When Their Husbands Cheat? Realize that the affair is not necessarily a negative reflection on you, or an indication of problems in your marriage. Infidelity studies have found that happy husbands cheat too, and that even good marriages are not immune to infidelity. See the articles entitled Happy Husbands Cheat, Too and Top 10 Reasons Why Men and Women Cheat

For the latest information and advice on infidelity, cheating spouses, and extramarital affairs, visit my National Infidelity Examiner page at Examiner.com

15 Reasons a Wife Should Give Thanks if She Has a Faithful Mate

2009-11-25T17:19:00.004-05:00

This Thanksgiving, any wife with a faithful husband has a lot to be thankful for.

Infidelity statistics indicate that 3 out of every 4 men are cheating on their mates.

Faithful husbands are few and far between.
See the article entitled Be Thankful This Thanksgiving if You Have a Faithful Mate.

If you’re fortunate enough to be the 1 wife out of every 4 whose husband isn’t having an affair, there are 15 things you should be thankful for.

1. Be thankful that your marriage and family are still intact.

2. Be thankful you that don’t have to fight over which parent your children will spend Thanksgiving with this year.

3. Be thankful your husband hasn't packed his bags and moved in with his mistress.

4. Be thankful your husband hasn’t surprised you with divorce papers out of the blue.

5. Be thankful you don’t have to go through a custody battle over your children.

6. Be thankful you don’t have to deal with the mental and emotional trauma that infidelity brings.

7. Be thankful you don’t have to sit home alone at night wondering where your husband is, or who he’s with.

8. Be thankful you haven’t contracted a sexually transmitted disease because your husband had unprotected sex with someone else.

9. Be thankful your husband hasn't emptied your joint bank account or used family funds to finance his extramarital affair.

10. Be thankful you don’t have to agonize over the difficult decision of whether or not to stay with a cheating mate.

11. Be thankful you don’t have to shell out money to a divorce attorney to help you bring your marriage to an end.

12. Be thankful you don’t have to persuade your husband that the two of you need to see a marriage counselor to get your marriage back on track.

13. Be thankful you’re not one of those 26 million unsuspecting wives who didn’t know her husband was having an affair.

14. Be thankful you’re not an object of pity among your family and friends because you were the last to know.

15. Be thankful the time and energy you’ve invested in your marriage have not been in vain.

Not Sure if Your Husband is One of the Faithful Few?

If you’re not quite sure whether your husband is among the cheaters, or the faithful few, then be thankful you found this article. Here a way for you to find out. Request a free copy of the special report entitled Is He Cheating? Is She Cheating? - 21 Ways You Can Tell, by e-mailing InfidelityInfo@gmail.com with “21 ways -tkb" in the subject line.

You’ll be thankful you did.

For more information about infidelity, cheating husbands or extramarital affairs, see the following articles, tip sheets and special reports:

Be Thankful This Thanksgiving if You Have a Faithful Mate

Is He Cheating? Is She Cheating? - 21 Ways You Can Tell (free infidelity report)

What Should I Do If I Think He or She is Cheating on Me?

3 Things a Wife Stands to Lost by Being the Last to Know

How Do You Catch a Cheating Husband?

Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs (book)

Why the wife is still the last to know

How Wives with Cheating Husbands Can Gain the Upper Hand (free tip sheet)

13 Things Everyone Should Know About Signs of Infidelity

Free Infidelity Tip Sheets and Special Reports

Infidelity Resources to Help You catch a Cheating Mate

For the latest infidelity articles and infidelity advice, visit my National Infidelity Examiner page at Examiner.com

Special Announcement

2009-08-24T20:46:00.007-04:00

ATTENTION: Visitors from GMTV and the UK:

For the convenience of customers outside the United States, infidelity expert Ruth Houston’s book, Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs is available as an immediately downloadable e-book for $37 from Booklocker.com at http://www.booklocker.com/books/1755.html

Is He Cheating on You exposes all types of infidelity, including emotional infidelity, cyber, online or internet infidelity, workplace infidelity, same sex infidelity, financial infidelity and more.

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How to Catch a Cheating Mate

Many people mistakenly believe they need to hire a private investigator or buy expensive surveillance equipment to catch a cheating spouse or significant other. If you’re familiar with the signs of infidelity, all you really need are your own eyes and ears and your personal knowledge of your mate. Knowing what to look for is the key.

Stay Alert

If you suspect your mate of infidelity, you’ll need to be very observant. Pay close attention to everything he or she says or does from now on. Short of a confession – which is unlikely, or an accidental discovery, this is the only way you will find out the truth. The majority of telltale signs are subtle, but once you know what to look for, most of them are easy to spot.

NOTE: Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs covers practically every known sign of infidelity, including the subtle signs people usually overlook. Most of the signs in the book are universal, and apply to cheating woman and cheating men.

During this information-gathering period, don’t let a single day pass without searching for signs of infidelity. The signs that are evident one day may be undetectable the next. Be alert to for anything unusual, or any departures from your partner’s norm.

Write Down Everything You Find

Document everything! Keep accurate records of whatever you find -- names, dates, times, locations, suspicious incidents, phone calls, absences, meetings, excuses or alibis given, etc. Don’t rely on your memory. Record your findings in a journal and keep it safely under lock and key. Once you have everything down on paper, you can analyze what you’ve found for patterns of behavior.

Does he go to the store for a beer at 8:30 every Thursday night? Does he walk the dog for an extra hour on the first and third Sunday of each month? Does she put on cologne to go work out at the gym? Does she wear sexy lingerie only on days she calls home to say she has to work late? Patterns like these will only be evident if you document everything you find.

Exercise Caution and Be Discreet

Make photocopies or take photos of phone numbers, e-mails, letters, receipts and any other incriminating evidence you find. Then put things back exactly as they were. Keep your “evidence journal” in a safe place. You’ll need the proof you’ve found when you sit down and inform your mate that you know about the affair.

Be discreet while conducting your investigation. Keep your eyes and ears open, and your mouth shut. Be careful not to tip your hand. If your spouse or significant other figures out what you’re up to, they’ll start hiding evidence, or covering up their tracks.

Don’t Ask, Because He Won’t Tell

You may be tempted to question your mate about some of the evidence you’ve found. My advice to you is - DON’T. Now is not the time. Say nothing until you have all the facts at hand. Above all, DO NOT ASK IF HE OR SHE IS CHEATING. They will only tell you a lie. It usually takes solid evidence to get a cheating mate to confess to having an affair. Even then, many cheaters, still continue to lie.

Restrain Yourself

It will be difficult to restrain yourself as you document your findings and the evidence begins to mount. You’ll be tempted to drop a few hints, just to let your mate know that you’re not a fool. Keep your lips zipped until you have all the facts. There’s nothing to be gained by dropping hints or letting your mate know what you suspect. Don’t lose the advantage you have by revealing your knowledge too soon.

Build a Strong Case for the Confrontation

Once you have solid evidence that your mate is cheating on you, confront him or her with the evidence you’ve gathered and tell them you know about the affair. If your evidence is solid, and your case is strong, he or she can’t deny the truth. Especially if you’ve got everything down in black and white. That’s why it’s important for you to keep accurate notes.

Calmly discuss the affair with your mate. Ask all your unanswered questions at this time. Listen to what he or she has to say. Then use this information to help you formulate an appropriate plan of action to take.

A WORD OF CAUTION: Do not jeopardize your safety to search for telltale signs. If your mate is hot-tempered, aggressive, or has a history of violent behavior, leave the detective work to a pro. And have a trained professional, or other third party present when you confront you mate about the affair. Do not put yourself or your children at risk.

This information on how to catch a cheating mate is adapted from Chapter 4 of Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs. This infidelity reference book documents practically every known sign of infidelity, including the subtle signs people usually overlook. Most of the signs apply to cheating women, as well as cheating men.

For your convenience, the signs of infidelity in "Is He Cheating on You?" are grouped into 21 major categories so you can easily find the signs that apply to your marriage or your mate.

The soft cover version of Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs is available from http://www.ishecheatingonyoubook.com/ or from Amazon.com, or 1-800-431-1579.

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Will He Leave You for the Other Woman?

2009-08-17T15:57:00.004-04:00

ATTENTION
To read my comments on Jenny Sanford’s interview in the September 2009 issue of Vogue magazine about her husband’s affair, click here

or visit my page at Examiner.com
http://www.examiner.com/x-17416-NY-Infidelity-Examiner
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Will He Leave You for the Other Woman?

You found out your husband or boyfriend is cheating on you.

The one question you keep asking yourself over and over is;

“Will he leave me for her?”

There is a way to tell, but the answer depends on several things, including:

● how close he and his mistress have become

● what kind of person she is

● what stage the affair is in

● what he stands to gain or lose.

There are certain signs of infidelity that can tell you whether his affair with the Other Woman is a serious threat to your marriage or relationship, or if it’s just a fling.

The 5 signs below are indications indicate that your husband or boyfriend is likely to leave you for the woman he’s been seeing behind your back.

1. He has a heavy financial investment in her, or in the affair.

If you find financially-related signs of infidelity which indicate that he’s paying her rent, mortgage, car note, utilities, credit card or other major bills; or find signs that he’s regularly depositing money into her bank account, the situation does not look good. Especially if the two of you are married. If he’s willing to use family funds to finance his affair, or keep his mistress happy, this is a very bad sign.

2. He begins to distance himself from you, your family, and mutual friends.

Distancing himself from you can manifest itself in many ways. He may no longer want to go places or do things with you – even things the two of you once enjoyed doing together. He may make excuses, or flat out refuse to attend family gatherings with you, or socialize with mutual friends. These are just a few of the signs that he’s gradually removing himself from your world, and becoming more firmly entrenched in hers.

3. He spends holidays, weekends, or takes regular vacations with her.

The frequency and duration of the time he spends with his mistress can be a big indication that he’s planning to leave you for her. Holidays, weekends, and vacation time are usually reserved for family. If he’s spending couple time, or family time with her, that’s a sure sign that their relationship is more than just a fling.

4. He and his mistress share a common passion.

If he and his mistress have many interests in common, or share a common passion – golf, foreign films, horseback riding, photography, stamp or coin collecting, or some other hobby or pastime that is near and dear to his heart -- the likelihood is very high that he will leave you for her. If he’s doing all the fun things in his life with her, and all the boring, day-to-day things with you, that only increases his desire to be with her.

5. He has bonded emotionally with her.

Has he stopped sharing his inner thoughts with you? Does he no longer discuss his aspirations or the goals he wants to achieve? Do you find out about important things in his life after the fact? If he’s now confiding in his mistress rather than you, the situation is very grave indeed. If she is the first person he calls to talk to when something significant happens to him -- good or bad, he has bonded emotionally with her, and you have ceased to be a priority in his life. If he’s sharing his hopes, dreams, fears, and future plans with her, and constantly turning to her for emotional support, it’s just a matter of time before he leaves you for her.

What if You Don’t Find Any Signs

If you don’t see any of these or similar signs, then either his affair is still in the early stages, or
it’s not a threat to your marriage or relationship – yet.

Either way, you need to take positive action because the longer the affair continues, the greater the likelihood that it will become serious as time goes on. The bonds he shares with his mistress will probably strengthen over time.

Check His Mistress Out

It’s also advantageous for you to know who his mistress is, so make it your business to find out. For details on how this can help you, see the article entitled What You Should Know About Your Husband’s Mistress and Why.

If you need to trace a phone number or an e-mail address to find out her name, use CheatingSpousePhoneSearch.com or CheatingSpouseEMailSearch.com or a similar reputable service. Once you have her name, go to CheatingSpouseBackgroundCheck.com and run a background check to find out as much as about her you can.

If she’s married, or has children, that complicates matters for your husband or boyfriend and makes it less likely that he’ll leave you for her – even if you do find one or more of the signs mentioned above.

If a discreet online background check reveals that she has a criminal background, a questionable past, a reputation for being a home wrecker or a gold digger, bringing this to you’re his attention may keep him from making a terrible mistake.

Take Action Before It’s Too Late

That’s why it’s important to spot the warning signs of infidelity while the affair is still in the early stages. See the article entitled 3 Things a Wife Stands to Lose by Being the Last to Know.

You’ll have a valuable window of opportunity to get your marriage or relationship back on track before the affair reaches the point of no return.

If your relationship can’t be saved, or if you’d rather not even try, knowing in advance that he might leave you gives you a chance to prepare yourself mentally and emotionally. If you’re married, it gives you time to put some legal and financial safeguards in place before he surprises you with divorce papers, or decides to simply walk out on you and move in with her.

For a list of practical steps you can take, request a copy of the free tip sheet “How Wives with Cheating Husbands Can Gain the Upper Hand” by e-mailing InfidelityAdvice@gmail.com with “Upper Hand - b” in the subject line.

Copyright 2008-2009 Ruth Houston

For more information about infidelity, cheating spouses and extramarital affairs, visit http://infidelitynewsandviews.blogspot.com/

You Need to Check Out His Mistress - Here’s Why and How

2009-07-23T18:08:00.004-04:00

Steve McNair’s tragic death at the hands of his mistress underscores the need for any woman who knows her husband or boyfriend is cheating to check his mistress out.

There’s no indication that Mechelle McNair knew her husband, Steve McNair, was having an affair. But if she had known, and had checked out his mistress and found out that Sahel Kazemi was mentally unstable, she may have been able to talk McNair into leaving this troubled young woman alone.

Instead, McNair, a former NFL star was shot dead in his sleep by his 20-year-old mistress, leaving 4 sons and his devoted wife or 12 years.

If you know your husband or boyfriend is cheating on you, this may be one of the most important things you’ll ever read.

It covers why you need to find out as much as possible about his mistress, the risks to you’re your children and your husband if you don’t, what you need to find out about her, and how to check her out.

There are certain things you need to know about this woman. There are several reasons why it’s to your advantage to check her out.

Why You Need to Check His Mistress Out

You need to know who and what kind of person your husband has is dealing with.

Your life, his life, your children’s lives and financial well-being may depend on the kind of information you find and how you use what you know.

Especially if he’s dealing with someone who has ulterior motives, or who is emotionally fragile or mentally unstable.

Exactly who is this woman?

Does she live in your neighborhood? In your city or town? In another city or state?

How old is she?
Young women in their late teens or early 20’s, like McNair’s mistress, Sahel Kazemi tend to be unpredictable.

Several years ago, Joey Buttafucco’s young mistress, Amy Fisher, went to Joey’s home and shot his wife in the head.

What will she do if your husband tries to leave her?
Will she go off the deep end and try to harm him, you, or your children?

Will she try to destroy your house, car, place of business or other personal property?

Is she mean-spirited? Hot-tempered? Vindictive?
If he leaves her, will she try to get back at him in some way?

Back in the 80’s Jean Harris went to her lover Herman Tarnower’s home, and shot and killed him.

And we see what happened this month with Sahel Kazemi and Steve McNair.

Does she have a history of violence?
Will she attempt to harm you, your husband, or your children if things don’t go her way?
Do you need get an order of protection?

Back in the 80’s Jean Harris went to her lover Herman Tarnower’s home, and shot and killed him.

Is she a stalker?
Will she harass you, your children, or other members of your family?

Does she have a reputation as a home wrecker? Or a history of dating married men?

What are her motives?

Is she out for just a fling, fun and games, a good time?

Is she a gold digger with a reputation for going after wealthy or prominent men for money, gifts, favors, and whatever else she can get?

Is she looking for a steady meal ticket? Will she attempt to get pregnant by your husband so she can collect child support?

Or is she in love with your husband, and is trying to get him to divorce you and marry her?

If she succeeds in getting your husband to move in with her, or to divorce you to marry her, you may be able to sue her for alienation of affections, depending on the state where you live.

Does she own a home, a business, a car, boat, or property of some kind.?
Does she have enough assets to make a lawsuit worth your while?

If it’s a workplace affair, will she try get your husband fired, or ruin his reputation by charging him with sexual harassment on the job?

Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.
How far would she go to even the score?
Would she accuse yoour husband of rape?

Is she promiscuous? Does she sleep around?
Do your and your husband need to be tested for HIV/AIDS?

As you can see from the tragic death of Steve McNair, it pays to know who your husband is dealing with.

(Besides, if he’s been seeing her for a while, you might be surprised to find out how much she knows about you.)

How to Check Her Out

To check his mistress out, you need to know her name so you can run a background check.
If you don’t know who she is, there's an easy way to find out.

Check your husband’s his cell phone or e-mail account, and write down any suspicious or unfamiliar phone numbers or e-mail addresses you find. Then use a reputable service like http://www.cheatingspousephonesearch.com/ or http://www.cheatingspouseemailsearch.com/ to do a reverse search to find out who the phone number and e-mail address belong to.

Once you have her name, you're ready to do an online background check.

It’s quick, easy, affordable, and can be done from the privacy of your own home. All you need is a computer with internet access. It’s s completely confidential.
Unless you tell, no one will know you checked her out.

For less than the price of a bag of groceries, reputable online services like http://www.cheatingspousebackgroundcheck.com/ will give you access to public records containing any or all of the following information:

Report includes address, birth date, maiden name, marriages, divorces, relatives, property ownership, personal assets, - business, house, boat, car, court records, personal assets, criminal records, known associates, roommates, neighbors and more. All you need is her name.

Regardless of whether you plan to stay with your cheating husband or leave him – or even if you’re not sure right now, you need to find out who his mistress is, and check her out.

A discreet background will help you find out what kind of person he’s dealing with, and whether or not you have cause for concern.

3 Reputable and Affordable) Services You Can Use

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For more information about these services, click here.

You might also want to send for the FREE tip sheets below:

How Wives with Cheating Husbands Can Gain the Upper Hand
Send an e-mail to InfidelityAdvice@gmail.com with the words Upper Hand – bms in the subject line.

Go or Stay – How to Decide Whether to Give a Cheater a Second Chance
Send an e-mail to InfidelityAdvice@gmail.com with the words Go or Stay – bms in the subject line.

For more FREE infidelity tip sheets, visit http://freeinfidelitytipsheets.blogspot.com/

If He’s Cheating, Take a Firm Stand Like Jenny Sanford

2009-06-30T14:47:00.004-04:00

ATTENTION
To read my comments on Jenny Sanford’s interview in the September 2009 issue of Vogue magazine about her husband’s affair, click here

or visit my page at Examiner.com
http://www.examiner.com/x-17416-NY-Infidelity-Examiner
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If He’s Cheating, Take a Firm Stand Like Jenny Sanford

When a betrayed wife, like Jenny Sanford, finds out that her husband has had, or is having an extramarital affair, she is faced with the difficult task of trying to decide whether or not to give him a second chance.

It’s not an easy decision for any woman to make. She may have invested many years of her life in her marriage. Often there are children involved. There may be financial implications, as well.

Many factors have to be taken into consideration before a final decision is made, including the circumstances of the infidelity, and the cheating husband’s attitude about the affair. Women who make a decision on the spur of the moment, usually regret the choice they have made.

NOTE: The free Go or Stay tip sheet covers many of the factors a wife should consider when trying to decide whether to give a cheating husband a second chance.

Save Your Dignity and Your Marriage by Taking a Firm Stand

What if you find yourself faced with this situation. What should you do? There are several steps you should take to preserve your dignity and pave the way for saving your marriage if that is ultimately what you decide to do. Like Jenny Sanford, you need to speak up and take a firm stand. Even if you later decide that leaving or putting him out is the best course of action to take, the steps below will serve you well.

What to Do When You Find Out About His Affair

Control Your Emotions - Get a grip on your emotions. Give yourself a few hours or a few days before confronting your husband about his affair. If you react on the spur of the moment, you might say or do something you will later regret.

Confront Him and Tell Him You Know - Confront your husband with the proof you’ve obtained that he is, or has been cheating on you. Tell him you know about the affair. Note that I said TELL him you know. This means you must already have solid proof of his affair. DO NOT ask him if he’s cheating – he will only tell you no.

Tell Him You Disapprove – Don’t beat around the bush. Let him know that you disapprove of the affair. Make it clear to him, in no uncertain term, that you want it to stop.

Tell Him to End it NOW - Insist that he end the affair immediately. No long, drawn-out, extended goodbyes like Gov. Mark Sanford’s 5 day goodbye to his mistress Maria Belen Chapur. He does not need to say goodbye face-to-face. He can either call, e-mail, or write her a letter to tell her that the affair is over, and he won’t be seeing her again.

Have Him Cut Off ALL Contact with His Mistress – Be very clear that you expect him to have no further contact with his mistress. He should cut off ALL communication with her. No contact means exactly that - NO CONTACT – no e-mails, phone calls, no text messages, no personal visits with the Other Woman.

Warn Him What Will Happen If He Does it Again - Let him know there will be serious consequences if it happens again. And be prepared to follow through. Get professional legal and and financial advice so you know what your options are.

Make Him Earn Your Trust - Let him know- like Jenny Sanford –that you are willing to forgive him, but that forgiveness is not being handed to him on a silver platter. Make sure he understands that he has to earn your trust and your forgiveness by his words and deeds from now on.

Seek Professional Counseling – Find a marriage and family counselor who is experienced in dealing with infidelity. Studies indicate that couples who seek professional counseling are more likely to stay together. If this is not possible, invest in one or more books on surviving infidelity (there are several good ones available) and read them together.

Is He Still Cheating? Will He Cheat Again?

Two of the biggest fears you will face when deciding to take your husband back are the fear that the affair is still going on, and the fear that he will cheat on you again. Both of these are valid fears, considering the fact that your husband’s affair probably went on for quite some time before you discovered what was going on.
NOTE: The free Go or Stay Tip Sheet (mentioned below) has more detailed information about these two fears, and how you can cope with, or overcome them.

There are discreet ways to find out if he’s still calling, e-mailing , or texting his mistress behind your back after agreeing to cut off all communication with her. If you find a suspicious phone number or e-mail address, run a reverse phone number check or a reverse e-mail address check to find out if belongs to. her You can also run a background check on her. This is also a good way to find out more about his mistress, or find out who she is, if you don’t already know.

What kind of person is she? Where does she live and work? Is she someone you should be concerned about? Is she a stalker? A violent person who will attempt to harm you, your husband or your children? Is she married? Does she have children of her own? Does she have a criminal background? Is she a gold digger, a black mailer who will wreak havoc in your life? Running a discreet background check on your husband’s mistress will help you find out what kind of person he’s dealing with, and whether or not you have cause for concern.

Below are 3 reputable (and affordable) services a betrayed wife can use to discreetly check phone numbers, and email addresses, or run background checks. You can do this from your own computer in the privacy of your home.

http://www.cheatingspousephonesearch.com/

http://www.cheatingspouseemailsearch.com/

http://www.cheatingspousebackgroundcheck.com/

For more information on resources for betrayed wives, click here, or visit
http://infidelitynewsandviews.blogspot.com/2009/01/infidelity-resources-you-requested-to.html

Affair Recovery Advice

If you have already decided to stay with your husband, I strongly recommend the e-book version of Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs because it comes with a bonus section that contains the affair recovery information below

• What the Two of You Must Do to Survive Your Husband’s Affair
• Advice for the Husband Who Cheated
• Advice for the Betrayed Wife
• Can Your Marriage Survive His Affair? - Questionnaire
• Will He Cheat Again? – Questionnaire

This information will be especially helpful to you if you’re trying to reconcile with a cheating mate. ONLY the E-BOOK VERSION, (NOT the soft cover version) of Is He Cheating on You? contains this information. It is available from http://www.booklocker.com/books/1755.html for $37
Click here to order your personal copy now.

FREE Tip Sheets to Help Wives with Cheating Husbands

The free infidelity tip sheets and special reports below can help regardless of whether you’ve decided to leave your husband, or stay with him and give him a second chance. Even if you haven’t decided yet, what course of action to take, these tip sheets can help bring clarity to your situation.

• 5 Things You Shouldn’t Do If He’s Cheating on You

• How Wives with Cheating Husbands Can Gain the Upper Hand

• Go or Stay Should You Give Your Cheating Husband a Second Chance?

To request one of the FREE tip sheets above, send an e-mail to InfidelityAdvice@gmail.com with either "5 Things – bJS,” or “Upper Hand – bJS” or “Go or Stay - bJS” in the subject line, depending on which tip sheet you are requesting.

When Men Become Victims of Infidelity

2009-06-19T10:50:00.003-04:00

We usually think of infidelity victims as being women. But as the rate of female infidelity continues to rise, an increasing number of men have found themselves on the receiving end of infidelity.

If you are a man whose wife or girlfriend is cheating on you, you need to be aware that her infidelity could adversely affect you in many ways. Those of you who are fathers should also be aware that if the mother of your children is having an affair, her infidelity can have an adverse effect on them too. The second half of this article (Other Problems You May Face) explains how.

How a Man Can Be Affected by Infidelity

If you’re on the receiving end of infidelity, you can be affected psychologically, physically, financially, and a number of other ways, too.

Psychologically

● The shock of discovering that your wife or girlfriend is cheating on you can affect your work performance to the point that it could cause you to lose your job.

● The mental stress of worrying about who she’s cheating with, how long it’s been going on, who else knows about it, whether she’s going to leave you for him, why she cheated, what went wrong, how you can win her back – all this can make you susceptible to drug or alcohol abuse.

Physically

● If she’s had unprotected sex with her lover, and you’ve been sexually active with her during that time, your health could be in jeopardy.

● You may have unknowingly been exposed to sexually transmitted diseases which could cause you to become sterile and incapable of fathering (more) kids.

● You may have been exposed to HIV/AIDS.

Financially

● If she divorces you, you’ll find yourself saddled with child support, and maybe alimony too.

● If she becomes pregnant by her lover, you may unknowingly end up raising another man’s child.

● If she charges gifts for her lover on your joint credit cards, you could end up footing the bill for her affair.

Other Problems You May Face

Many men have had their lives destroyed by their wife’s or girlfriend’s affairs. Below are some of the other problems and indignities you, and (any children you have) may face.

● She may suddenly end your relationship, or hit you with a surprise divorce.

● If her infidelity leads to divorce, you probably won’t get custody of your children because of maternal bias in the courts.

● You may lose contact with your children if she leaves and takes them with her, or if she remarries and moves to another state.

● If she remarries, you’ll have to deal with another man raising your children.

● If she’s vindictive, you may find yourself falsely accused of child molestation or child abuse.

● You may be require to move out of the marital home and find someplace else to live.

● If you have aggressive tendencies, may resort to domestic violence or assault her lover, and end up in jail

● The trauma of infidelity could drive you to commit suicide.

● If she walks out on you and the children, you’ll end up trying to raise your children alone.

● You may lose the respect of some of your male friends when they find out she cheated on you.

● The fact that she cheated on you could totally destroy your self-esteem.

You Can’t Afford To Be The Last To Know

You don’t want to find yourself in any of the situations above. If your wife or girlfriend is cheating on you, you can’t afford to be the last one to know. It could cost you your marriage, your money, and your health.

Unfortunately, most men have no idea their wife or girlfriend is having an affair. If you’re unfamiliar with the subtle signs of infidelity (as most men are), by the time you find out she’s cheating, it may already be too late.

Precautions You Can Take

Infidelity affects 80% of all marriages and committed relationships today. Fortunately there are precautions that you can take. The good news is that a woman on the verge of having an affair will display many subtle signs of infidelity, long before the physical act of infidelity takes place. If you know how to spot these signs, may be able to stop the affair before it starts. But knowing what to look for is the key.

Recognizing the Signs of Infidelity

If you want to safeguard your marriage or relationship, your best bet is to educate yourself about female infidelity. Learn to recognize the signs of infidelity, and you’ll have a fighting chance to save your marriage/ relationship before it’s too late. It will also give you ample time to protect your assets, in case she’s planning to leave you, or surprise you with a divorce.

The future of your marriage and your relationship with your children (if you are a father) may depend on your ability to spot the signs of infidelity in time.

Start by familiarizing yourself with both the subtle, as well as the obvious signs of infidelity.

Request a FREE copy of the special report Is She Cheating? – 21 Ways You Can Tell, which covers the 21 major categories of infidelity signs. E-mail InfidelityInfo@gmail.com with the words 21 ways-bfd in the subject line.

More Help If You Have a Cheating Wife or Girlfriend

You should also seriously consider investing in a copy of the popular infidelity reference book, Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs. It covers practically every known sign of infidelity, including the subtle signs people usually overlook. Despite the title, most of the signs in the book apply to cheating women, as well as cheating men. Click here to buy the book now. Or order from http://www.ishecheatingonyoubook.com/ or Amazon.com. Or call 1-800-431-1579.

Is He Cheating on You is also available as a downloadable e-book from http://www.booklocker.com/books/1755.html The e-book version (NOT the soft cover) has a special section for men entitled Is SHE Cheating? And a special bonus section with affair recovery information. Click here to order the e-book version now.

For more information about infidelity, cheating spouses and extramarital affairs, visit http://infidelitynewsandviews.blogspot.com/

Why Elizabeth Edwards and Other Wives Stay with Husbands Who Cheat

2009-05-06T23:02:00.005-04:00

Elizabeth Edward’s new book , Resilience, has once again raised the question of why women stay with men who cheat.

Understanding Why Women Stay with Cheating Men

It’s hard for some people to understand why Elizabeth Edwards and other wives with cheating husbands chose to stay with the man who cheated on them, rather than file for a divorce. But most people who criticize betrayed wives like Elizabeth Edwards for the choice they have made, have never been on the receiving end of an affair.

You Never Know Til it Happens to You

Some wives are quick to say that if their husband ever cheated on them, the marriage would be over – they’d leave the cheater or put him out. However, after 15 years of researching infidelity, and interviewing women with cheating mates, I have found that most women who make statements like this have never personally experienced infidelity.

I have also known many women who initially felt this way until they found out their husbands were having an extramarital affair. You never really know how you’ll react in this situation until it happens to you.

12 Reasons Women Stay

There are many reasons a betrayed wife would stay with a cheating husband rather than leaving him or filing for divorce. 12 of those reasons are listed below:

· For the sake of the children

· Desire to keep the family intact

· Poor Health· Loyalty

· Financial reasons

· Convenience

· Bad timing

· Fear of being alone

· Belief that it won’t happen again

· Unwillingness to give up current lifestyle

· Religious beliefs

· Love

Any, or all of these reasons could apply to Elizabeth Edwards -- or to you – if your husband has had an affair. These are by no means the only reasons. There are other reasons, as well -- reasons which may make sense only to the woman involved.

In Elizabeth Edwards’ situation, her health is deteriorating - she has terminal cancer, and she also has two young school-aged children. Do people really expect a woman in her position to let anger, bitterness, or the desire for revenge overrule her common sense?

Not an Easy Decision to Make

I happen to know from my personal experience as a victim of infidelity, as well as from the thousands of female infidelity victims I’ve interviewed in my research over the past 15 years, that the decision to end a marriage does not come that easily or that fast.

In deciding whether to dissolve your marriage or stay with a cheating husband and give him a second chance, many factors must be taken into consideration.

Most women spend weeks, months, or even years, agonizing over what to do. Most of the women who make the life-altering decision to leave a cheating spouse on the spur of the moment without taking everything into consideration, usually regret the choice they’ve made.

No One-Size-Fits-All Solution

When it comes to dealing with infidelity, there’s no one-size-fits-all solution for handling the situation. No one should presume to tell another woman how she should handle her husband’s infidelity. You have to make the choice that’s right for you. Whether you should file for divorce or stay with your husband and your marriage a second chance is a decision that only you can make. What’s right for one woman in the same situation may be totally wrong for you.

In the long run, you have to decide what is in your best interests to do, especially if there are children involved. It’s your decision – and yours alone -- to make. And people should respect your choice.

So regardless of whether people agree with Elizabeth Edwards’ decision to remain with John or not, the bottom line is that it was her decision – and hers alone -- to make. She is the one who has to live – or die – with her choice.

FREE Tip Sheet to Help You Make the Right Choice

For a free copy of the tip sheet entitled Go or Stay? which covers many of the factors you should consider in deciding whether or not to give your cheating husband a second chance, e-mail InfidelityInfo@gmail.com with “go or stay” in the subject line.

How Infidelity Affects Mothers

2009-05-01T16:13:00.006-04:00

If you are a mother, and your husband is cheating on you, you'll want to be aware that his infidelity can affect you --and by default - your children in 3 ways.

Your husband’s extramarital affair can take its toll on you psychologically, physically and financially. For details on how infidelity can affect you as a mother in each od these 3 ways, continue reading below.

Psychologically

If your husband is cheating on you, it can lead to psychological issues that can negatively impact the way you interact with your children. You may be so pre-occupied with your husband’s extramarital affair that you become short tempered or impatient with your children. You may be so emotionally distraught that you neglect them, or are unable to give them the care and attention they deserve. It’s difficult to focus on the needs of your children while you are trying to deal with the issues associated with your husband’s affair –who the other woman is, how long the affair has been going on, why he cheated, who else knows, searching for proof of his infidelity so you can confront him about the affair, determining whether it’s just a fling or if his cheating poses a serious threat to your marriage. The mental stress you’re under can undermine your ability to be a good mother.

Your husband’s infidelity can also cause your children to have psychological problems that you, as a mother, will have to cope with, since you’re their primary caregiver. In younger children these problems may manifest themselves as depression, anxiety, problems in school, anti-social behavior or eating disorders. In addition to the problems mentioned above, older children and teens may also experience rebelliousness, promiscuity, or drug and alcohol abuse, and anger management issues.

Physically

If your cheating husband engages in unprotected sex, his infidelity puts you at risk for HIV/AIDS and other sexually transmitted diseases (STD’s) such as herpes, syphilis, or gonorrhea. STDs can cause cervical and other cancers, chronic hepatitis, pelvic inflammatory disease (PID), and other complications. If your health deteriorates, how can you take care of your children? Who will care for them if you can’t?

If you’re expecting, many STDs can be life threatening, for you and your baby. Becoming infected with an STD while you’re pregnant, can endanger the health of your baby. Some of the harmful effects your baby can suffer include low birth weight, pneumonia, nerve damage, blindness, deafness, and meningitis, just to name a few. Your baby could even be stillborn.

Your cheating husband can expose you to other STDs such as chlamydia and gonorrhea, which have no blatantly obvious symptoms, but can still seriously affect your reproductive system. Left detected and untreated, you could develop pelvic inflamatory disease (PID) which often leads to infertility, thus eliminating your chance to have more children. Even if you’re able to conceive, PID can cause serious complications, such as an ectopic, or tubal pregnancy which can be potentially fatal to you and your unborn child.

As for other health matters, recent studies have shown that many infidelity victims experience post-traumatic stress symptoms (PTSD) similar to those experienced by combat veterans. The trauma of discovering your husband’s infidelity can cause you to experience panic attacks, crying spells, rapid heart beat, elevated blood pressure, difficulty breathing, shock symptoms, chest pains, heart palpitations, sleep disturbances, flashbacks, difficulty concentrating, hyper-vigilance and other physical and emotional effects on your health.

Financially

If your cheating husband's extramarital affair progresses to the point of separation or divorce, it could affect your ability as a mother to financially provide for your child – especially if your husband refuses to meet his financial obligations. Without your husband’s income, you may be forced to lower your standard of living.

If your husband refuses to meet his financial obligations regarding alimony or child support, you may not be able to support your children in the manner they are accustomed to living. . Consider the financial implications a divorce would have on your and your children's living arrangements, health care, education, transportation, and the like.

You could end up having to work if you’ve been a stay-at-home Mom. Or if you’re a working mother, you may have to take a second job to make ends meet. This can severely limit the time you spend with your children. An unexpected divorce or separation can put an unsuspecting wife and mother in a serious financial bind.

Why as a Mother, You Cannot Afford to Be the Last to Know

That’s why it’s so important for you to educate yourself about infidelity – especially if are a mother. Ignorance is not bliss when it comes to infidelity and extramarital affairs. If you have children, and your husband is cheating, you cannot afford to be the last to know.

Forewarned is forearmed. Make it your business to familiarize yourself with the early warning signs of infidelity, as well as the subtle signs of an impending or an ongoing affair. This way you can take positive action at the first sign of trouble. Your children’s future, and the future of your marriage could well depend on your ability to spot the telltale signs of infidelity in time.

For the sake of your children, you need to familiarize yourself with the both the obvious and the subtle signs of infidelity. That way, if your husband is cheating you can find out before it’s too late. You’ll be in a position to protect yourself legally, financially, sexually and emotionally. But knowing what to look for is the key.

Learn How to Spot the Signs in Time

For Mother's Day, do yourself and your children a favor and familiarize yourself with the signs of infidelity., so you'll never be caught by surprise. Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs lists practically every known sign of infidelity, including the subtle signs women usually overlook. Click here or go to http://www.ishecheatingonyoubook.com/ to order your copy today.

Also available as an e-book from http://www.booklocker.com/books/1755.html

Meanwhile, request a free copy of my tip sheet which describes the 21 major categories of infidelity signs. E-mail InfidelityInfo@gmail.com with 21 categories-bmd in the subject line.

For more information about Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs, click here or visit http://ishecheatingonyou.blogspot.com/

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http://freeinfidelitytipsheets.blogspot.com/

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Emotional Infidelity Can Lead to Sexual Infidelity

2009-04-17T15:34:00.006-04:00

Is your spouse or significant other a little too chummy with someone of the opposite sex? --- perhaps a workmate, a neighbor, an old schoolmate, or an online friend? DO NOT TREAT THIS LIGHTLY. Close friendships of this type can easily progress to emotional infidelity, which can often lead to sexual infidelity, even if that was not the original intent. It could be the beginning of the end for your marriage or relationship.

The Danger of Opposite Sex Friendships

Far too many people underestimate the danger of close friendships with members of the opposite sex, because they start out innocently enough. In the early stages, there is no sex involved. Very often, the person involved in this type of friendship does not realize how much of a threat it can be to his or her marriage or relationship. If you complain about it, your partner may simply ignore you, or brush off your concerns as jealousy or paranoia.

How Emotional Infidelity Becomes Sexual Infidelity

However, if your spouse or significant other becomes emotionally dependant on this opposite sex friend, and starts sharing hopes, dreams, special moments and intimate information with them, instead of you, a strong emotional bond will develop. It the situation is not put into check, this bond will progress to emotional infidelity, which will eventually lead to sexual infidelity. Your marriage or relationship may be at stake.

Emotional Infidelity in Real Life – Brad, Jen and Angelina

A prime example of emotional infideity is what happened between Brad Pitt, Jennifer Aniston, and Angelina Jolie. Brad and Angelina met and became close friends while filming the movie Mr. and Mrs. Smith. Jennifer Anniston knew of their developing friendship but did not take it seriously. The end result: the friendship between Brad and Angelina grew into a strong emotional bond which developed into an emotional affair. (They both claimed that they were not sexually involved at the time) The emotional infidelity that developed between them, progressed to sexual infidelity which undermined Brad and Jen’s marriage and ultimately led to their divorce. Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie have been a couple since that time, and have biological and adopted children together.

The lesson here is clear: If you value your marriage or relationship,
NEVER UNDERESTIMATE THE DANGER OF AN EMOTIONAL AFFAIR.

Is Your Marriage or Relationship in Danger?

Is your spouse or significant other involved in a close friendship with a member of the opposite sex that is in danger of becoming emotional infidelity? Do you have a very close friendship with someone of the opposite sex that may be bordering on emotional infidelity? The quiz below will help you evaluate the situation.

FREE Emotional Infidelity Quiz

To evaluate your situation, request your FREE copy of the Emotional Infidelity Quiz which comes with a free tip sheet on 13 Ways to Keep Opposite Sex Friendships from Becoming Emotional Infidelity E-mail InfidelityAdvice@gmail.com with “emotional infidelity quiz and tip sheet - b” in the subject line.

Recognizing the Signs of Emotional Infidelity

For help in spotting the subtle signs of emotional infidelity, you might want to invest in a copy of
Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs. This book covers practically every known sign of infidelity including the subtle signs people usually overlook, and can expose all types of infidelity – emotional infidelity, workplace infidelity, online or internet infidelity, sexual infidelity and more. Most signs apply to both cheating women and cheating men. Is He Cheating on You? is also available as an e-book for customers who live outside the United States. For more information about Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs, click here or visit http://ishecheatingonyou.blogspot.com/

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Joint Tax Returns Can Reveal Both Financial and Marital Infidelity

2009-04-02T23:53:00.004-04:00

Financial infidelity and marital infidelity often go hand-in-hand. A cheating spouse usually ends up spending or receiving money somewhere along the line. So finding telltale signs of one type of infidelity will usually alert you to the existence of the other.

If you suspect your spouse of infidelity – either financial or sexual -- and the two of you file a joint income tax return, there could be hidden clues on your 1040 Form. Most financial infidelity is generally exposed during the tax season when couples file their joint income tax returns. But knowing what to look for is the key. There are specific places on your 1040 Form where you can find the telltale signs.

Salary Discrepancies Expose An Affair

For example, line 7 on your 1040 Form will alert you to any salary discrepancies. Wages, salaries, and tips are recorded here. Compare the figure on this line with your spouse’s attached W-2 Form.

Overtime is an excuse that cheating spouses commonly use to account for the time they spend on their extramarital affairs. Does line 7 reflect the amount of overtime your spouse claims to have worked last year? Or is this figure a lot less than you expect?

Tammy and Max

Max worked lots of overtime last year, often pulling a double shift. But Tammy noticed his salary was almost the same as he made the year before. She later found out the “overtime story” was a just cover for the affair Max was having with a woman on his job.

Chad and Angela

Chad was surprised to find that Angela’s salary was considerably lower than he thought it would be. Especially since she was always new designer clothing and jewelry, going to day spas to be pampered, and taking expensive vacations 2 or 3 times a year. There was no way the salary shown on Angela’s W-2 form could possibly cover all these things. Checking deeper into the matter, Chad discovered that Angela had a wealthy lover who was supplementing her income and showering her with expensive gifts.

Elaine and Dan

Did your spouse make a lot more money than he or she led you to believe? This could reflect a raise or bonus they didn’t tell you about. What did they do with the extra money? On what – or on whom was it spent? Elaine found that her husband Dan used his year-end bonus to buy his mistress a diamond ring.

Other Information Your 1040 Form Can Reveal

In addition to salary discrepancies, your 1040 Form can reveal all kinds of other incriminating financial information -- transactions made without your knowledge or consent, hidden sources of income, secret bank accounts, property or other assets you didn’t know your spouse had, and more.

Has your spouse been liquidating assets behind your back in preparation for a divorce? Is he paying alimony to an ex-wife you didn’t even know he had? Is his business really doing as poorly as he led you to believe? Or is it showing a healthy profit?

Form 1040 also has attachments, called "schedules" which depending on the taxpayer’s financial circumstances, may also need to be filed. A close examination of Schedules A, B, C, D, or E can be equally revealing and provide other valuable clues.

FREE Tip Sheet on What to Look for on Your 1040 Form

This is just a sample of the kind financial information you can find on your joint income tax form. A line-by-line review of your 1040 Form will reveal other clues about your spouse’s financial affairs. Knowing what to look for is the key. To find out where to look and what to look for on your 1040 Form, request a FREE copy of the tip sheet entitled “The Telltale 1040 Form.” Send an e-mail to InfidelityAdvice@gmail.com with “telltale 1040 – b” in the subject line.

Other Signs of Financial Infidelity

Let me remind you again that financial infidelity and sexual or marital infidelity go hand in hand. No matter what kind of infidelity your spouse is involved in – financial or sexual -- the telltale signs never appear in isolation. Where there’s one sign, there are usually other signs just waiting to be found. Again, knowing what to look for is the key. Not every sign of financial infidelity is tax-related. Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs has a chapter on Financial Affairs that lists 52 financially-related signs of infidelity. Click here for more information.

For a FREE tip sheet with 9 signs of financial infidelity taken from this chapter, e-mail InfidelityInfo@gmail.com with "9 financial signs - b" in the subject line.

Newlyweds Aren’t Immune to Infidelity

2009-03-19T16:07:00.003-04:00

The latest issue of Women’s Health magazine carries a quote from me on one of the reasons why infidelity among newlyweds is on the rise.

However, my quote addresses only one of the many reasons men and women cheat.

NOTE: For a list of the top 10 reasons men and women cheat, click here or visit http://infidelitynewsandviews.blogspot.com/

In addition to knowing the reasons why men and women cheat, it’s important for newlywed couples to be aware of the fact that newlyweds are not immune to infidelity.

According to the Journal of Couple and Relationship Therapy, approximately 60 % of men, and 50 % of women will have an extramarital affair at some point in their marriage.

Of course no newlywed couple ever expects infidelity to happen to them, but infidelity can happen to anyone at anytime. No one is immune. Even newly married couples are susceptible to infidelity. The new bride or groom who is unaware of this fact can be caught off guard, or taken totally by surprise when infidelity rears it’s ugly head.

Newlyweds need to know how to put the odds in their favor and decrease the likelihood that it will happen to them.

Infidelity Advice for Newlywed Couples

If you are a newlywed husband or wife, the best advice I can give you is this: educate yourself about infidelity. You need to be aware that men and women cheat on each other for entirely different reasons. NOTE: For the top 10 reasons why men cheat and the top 10 reasons women cheat, click here or visit http://infidelitynewsandviews.blogspot.com/

You need to know what circumstances can trigger episodes of infidelity. You need to know what innocent situations or activities can lead to an affair. Above all, you need to know how to spot the REAL signs of infidelity. Most of them are subtle and easy to overlook.

Misconceptions about the following things can cost you your marriage:

●why men and women cheat on each other
●when and under what circumstances infidelity is most likely to occur
●how to recognize the warning signs that your spouse is on the verge of having an affair

Advice for Newlywed Husbands

Men especially, need to keep their fingers on the pulse of their marriage. Most cases of female infidelity are preventable, since female infidelity is usually linked to marital dissatisfaction. If your wife expresses dissatisfaction with you or the marriage, or expresses a need for emotional intimacy, don’t treat it lightly. The good news is that the issues that usually motivate women to cheat on their mates can easily be resolved by an attentive, caring and cooperative husband. Unfortunately, by the time most unsuspecting husbands discover their wives are having an affair, it’s too late to do anything about it.

Advice for Newlywed Wives

Wives should be aware that unlike female infidelity, male infidelity is rarely linked to marital dissatisfaction. Men and women cheat for different reasons. Women are usually surprised to learn that happy husbands cheat too, and that a good marriage is not a guarantee against infidelity. Three separate studies published in prestigious medical journals last year, all reported that even good marriages are susceptible to infidelity.

So never assume that just because your husband is happy and your marriage is problem free, your husband will not cheat. Forewarned is forearmed. Familiarize yourself with the early warning signs of infidelity and the subtle signs of an impending or an ongoing affair. This way you can take positive action at the first sign of trouble. The future of your marriage could depend on your ability to spot the telltale signs in time.

Most Cheaters Never Get Caught

The sad reality is that most cheaters never get caught. Most victims of infidelity have no idea their spouse is having an affair because they fail to recognize the telltale signs.
One study found that 70% of married women and 54 % of married men did not know about their spouses' affair. In another study, 60% of the cheating spouses said their partner did not know about their affair.

Even undetected infidelity can take its toll on a marriage. So you and your spouse should both be familiar with the signs of infidelity. Early intervention can keep a budding affair from blossoming into a full blown romance. Early intervention can also prevent an affair in progress from reaching the point of no return. If your spouse is cheating -- or even thinking about cheating, you can’t afford to be the last to know.

Knowing What to Look for is the Key

If more husbands and wives knew how to spot the signs of infidelity, more marriages could be saved. But knowing what to look for is the key. This is where a good infidelity reference book can come in handy. Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs ($29, Lifestyle Publications) lists practically every known signs of infidelity, including the subtle signs people usually overlook. Despite the title, most of the signs in the book apply to both cheating women and cheating men. Click here to order your copy now. (Also available from www.IsHeCheatingBook.com, from Amazon.com, or from 1-800-431-1579)

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Why Some Women Side with Jennifer Aniston and Others Side with Angelina Jolie

2009-02-23T16:12:00.003-05:00

Who’s your favorite? Angie or Jen?

Do you identify with Team Aniston or Team Jolie?

Ever wonder why some women side with Jennifer Aniston, while others side with Angelina Jolie?

Each woman’s fans share certain characteristics, and tend to think alike in many respects.

For example, women who have been cheated on in the past by spouse or significant other tend to identify with Jennifer Aniston.

Women who have had affairs with someone else’s husband or boyfriend, tend to identify with Angelina Jolie.

In profiling the women who side with Angie, and the women who side with Jen, I found 14 things each star’s fans have in common.

Scroll down to check the list for fans of your favorite star to see how you compare.

Women who side with Jennifer Aniston tend to be:

●Women who are scorned wives, ex-wives, or single women who have been victims of infidelity.
●Women whose husbands or boyfriends are cheating on them now.
●Women who feel Angelina deliberately seduced Brad away from Jen.
●Women who blame Angelina for Brad and Jen’s divorce.
●Women who see Angie as a home wrecker.
●Women who view Angelina as a predator with a hidden agenda which included seducing Brad while they were filming Mr. and Mrs. Smith. (Angelina admitted in an interview once that she always falls in love with her male co-stars.)
●Women who identify with Jen’s sweet, innocent, girl-next-door image.
●Women who believe Angelina’s self-described role of being a shoulder for Brad to cry on was all a part of her scheme to snare him.
●Women who are convinced that showing Brad what a wonderful mother she is, was part of Angelina’s strategy to win Brad’s heart -- especially since children are his hot button.
●Women who feel that Jen got a raw deal near the end of her marriage to Brad Pitt.
●Women who feel that Jen has handled this whole situation with dignity and class.
●Women who agree with Jen that Angie’s statements about falling in love with Brad while filming Mr. and Mrs. Smith were “uncool.”
●Women who see Jen as an innocent victim.
●Women who feel sorry for Jen.

Women who side with Angelina Jolie tend to be:

●Women who strongly identify with the mistress or the “Other Woman” or who have been one themselves.
● Women who admire sexy, sultry, seductive women, or identify with these traits.
●Women who subscribe to the theory of "put your man first and do whatever it takes to keep him."
●Women who fault Jen for putting her career ahead of her husband.
●Women who feel that since Brad felt so strongly about having children, Jen should have given him a child. Since money was not an issue, they could have easily hired a Nanny so Jen could continue to pursue her acting career.
●Women who feel that if a woman doesn’t do the things necessary to hold onto her man, then she deserves to lose him.
●Women who feel that Angelina was not to blame for Brad and Jen’s divorce.
●Women who feel that Brad and Angelina make a better ( sexier, more interesting) couple than Brad and Jen.
●Women who love children.
●Women who themselves, were adopted.
●Women who admire all of Angelina’s charitable work.
●Women who like Angie simply because she has tattoos.
●Women who feels it’s Jen’s own fault that she lost Brad.
●Women who think Jen is selfish and shallow.

Learn from Jen’s Mistake

There’s a lesson to be learned from this whole Pitt-Jolie-Aniston love triangle. Brad and Jen were Hollywood’s Golden couple. They had a happy marriage, but Brads affair with Angie developed right under Jen’s nose, and like most wives, she was the last to know.

You don’t have to be blind-sided by infidelity like Jennifer Aniston was when Brad Pitt left her for Angelina Jolie. Educate yourself about infidelity. It can happen to anyone, at anytime, Studies show that good marriages are not immune to infidelity, and happy husbands cheat, too.

If you value your marriage or relationship, learn to spot the REAL signs of infidelity so you won’t be the last to know. Otherwise, like Jen, by the time you find out what’s going on, it may already be too late.

Start by requesting one of the free infidelity tip sheets below from http://freeinfidelitytipsheets.blogspot.com/

14 Things Everyone Should Know About Signs of Infidelity

The 21 Major Categories of Infidelity Signs

Will He Cheat Quiz

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Signs of Infidelity that Show Up AFTER Valentine’s Day

2009-02-16T07:14:00.002-05:00

If your husband or boyfriend is having an affair, certain signs of infidelity will usually show up AFTER Valentine’s Day.

If your wife or girlfriend is cheating on you, the same thing holds true.

Even though Valentine’s Day is over, there may still be some incriminating evidence around that can help you catch you cheating mate.

Follow His Paper Trail

Most cheating husbands or boyfriends will buy their mistress a Valentine’s Day gift. It could be, jewelry, lingerie, flowers or a box of chocolates. Use this fact to your advantage, if you suspect infidelity. Regardless of how he paid for the Other Woman’s Valentine’s Day gift, his purchase will leave a paper trail. ATM slips, bank statements, store receipts, charge slips or credit card bills all contain valuable clues – where or when the transaction took place, and what was bought, or how much money was withdrawn or spent.

You probably won’t have to look very hard to find tangible evidence, because men tend to be careless with receipts. They’ll casually stuff things in their pockets and forget to take them out. Or they’ll empty their pockets and absently-mindedly toss everything on top of the dresser or the night stand or in the garbage.

What you’re looking for is a store receipt or a credit card charge slip from a jewelry store, women’s boutique or specialty shop, a lingerie store or catalog (like Victoria’s Secret), a florist, or something along those lines.

If you find a florist receipt, check to see how many purchases were made. If the receipt shows that 2 dozen roses were bought and you only receive one, who did he send the other dozen roses to? Sometimes the receipt will have the name and address of who the flowers were delivered to. If not you may be able to call or visit the florist to get this information. Most florists won’t tell you, but some will. Give it a try.

Does the receipt correspond with the gift you received from your husband or boyfriend on Valentine’s Day? Did you find a receipt for jewelry, but candy and flowers were all you got? You may encounter a situation like the two below:

Celine’s Cheating Valentine Story

While dropping off her husband’s suit at the dry cleaners, Celine found a jewelry store receipt in his jacket pocket for a 14K gold and diamond heart-shaped pendant that cost $446. Thinking it was the receipt for her Valentine’s gift, she said nothing so as not to spoil the surprise. But on Valentine’s Day Kevin gave her a ring. Although Celine couldn’t find out who Kevin gave the pendant to, the fact that he bought a $400 gift for another woman told her all she needed to know.

Gina’s Cheating Valentine Story

While emptying the bedroom wastepaper basket, Gina found an ATM slip from her husband Carlos’ bank account dated February 10, indicating a $450 cash withdrawal. She immediately became suspicious because the card, roses and box of chocolates Carlos gave her for Valentine’s Day couldn’t have cost anywhere near that amount. She was convinced Carlos spent the money on a Valentine’s Day gift for another woman, and began looking for other signs of infidelity to confirm that Carlos was having an affair.

Suspicious Gifts to Her

Men with cheating wives or girlfriends should be on the lookout for suspicious Valentine’s gifts that suddenly show up after Valentine’s Day. If your wife or girlfriend has a secret lover, he undoubtedly bought her a Valentine’s Day gift so pay special attention to any new jewelry she starts wearing when Valentine’s Day has passed. Any jewelry that’s heart-shaped, is usually a dead give-away. You might also check to see if it’s engraved with sentiments of love.

Rodney’s Cheating Valentine Story

Shortly after Valentine’s Day, Rodney noticed Pat wearing a bracelet with several small gold heart-shaped charms. He complimented her on it and asked where she got it from. Pat told him she bought it for herself at a jewelry store that had an after-Valentine’s Day sale. But when Rodney questioned Pat further, she was vague about which jewelry store it came from and how much the bracelet cost, and told him she’d misplaced the receipt. Rodney became suspicious because Pat was very organized and always saved receipts long after they were needed. And she always knew exactly how much everything cost.

It was several days before Rodney managed to get a closer look at the bracelet, which Pat left in her jewelry box when she went to the gym. Upon closer examination Rodney saw that each of the first 8 hearts had a single letter engraved on the back, which together spelled “I love you.” The 9th heart was slightly larger than the others and was engraved with the words “ Love,Ted 2008.”

Don’t Confront the Cheater Without Additional Proof

Don’t confront your cheating spouse or lover solely on the basis of signs of infidelity like those above. Those the evidence may be strong, it’s not enough to go on. You need to gather additional proof.

Signs of infidelity never appear in isolation. Cheaters ALWAYS display multiple telltale signs. Where there’s one sign of infidelity, there are plenty of other corroborating signs just waiting to be found. Knowing what to look for is the key.

FREE Infidelity Report: 21 Ways to Tell if You Have a Cheating Mate

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An Infidelity Book That Helps You Quickly Get Proof of a Cheating Mate

If you suspect your mate of cheating, you should also get a copy of Is He Cheating on You?” – 829 Telltale Signs. This $29 book has been described as a “cheater’s worst nightmare because it covers practically every known sign of infidelity, including the subtle signs people usually overlook. Despite the title, most of the signs in the book apply to both cheating woman and cheating men. Click here to order your copy now, or order from www.IsHeCheatingBook.com or from the 24-hour toll-free number 800-431-1579, or from Amazon.com

If you live outside the United States, or if you want immediate access to this information, it may be more convenient for you to order the downloadable e-book version of Is He Cheating on You?” – 829 Telltale Signs from http://www.booklocker.com/books/1755.html for $37

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Catch Your Cheating Spouse on Unofficial Mistress Day

2009-02-13T16:08:00.003-05:00

February 13th is often referred to as unofficial Mistress Day.

Since a cheating husband (or boyfriend) will usually spend Valentine’s Day with his wife (or steady girlfriend), he will usually set aside the day before Valentine’s Day (Mistress Day) to spend time with the woman with whom he’s having an affair.

In fact, cheating Valentines of both sexes generally plan to spend time together on February 13th or unofficial Mistress Day, so they can ether give or receive their secret lover’s Valentine’s Day gift.

This is especially true since Valentine’s Day falls on a Saturday this year.

Getting Together to Give or Receive a Valentine’s Day Gift

Regardless of whether it’s flowers, jewelry, chocolates or lingerie, that Valentine’s Day gift must be personally delivered or received.

So the cheating husband or boyfriend will usually make every effort to personally deliver his mistress’s Valentine’s Day Gift.

A cheating wife or girlfriend will usually rearrange her schedule so she can meet her secret lover and personally receive his gift.

That’s why today, Mistress Day, February 13, the day before Valentine’s Day is an ideal time to catch your cheating mate.

If you suspect your spouse or significant other of being a cheating Valentine, the tips below will either help you sabotage their plans -- or catch them in the act.

Call Your Mate at Work This Afternoon

Did your spouse or significant other return from lunch at the usual time today? Or did he or she take an extended lunch hour, or take the whole afternoon off? Call them after lunch to find out.

Did he or she leave work early to spend an hour or two with his or her lover before coming home? Call an hour or two before quitting time.

Your mate and his or her lover could have made plans to meet after work for a pre-Valentine’s Day tryst.

Call and suggest that the two of you start your Valentine celebration early by meeting for pre-Valentine’s drinks after work. Does he or she try to talk you out of the idea, discourage you from dropping by, or make excuses for why he or she can’t go?

You could also surprise your mate by just showing up unannounced, and sabotage any plans he or she might have made.

Lame Excuses to Get Away

Be very suspicious of flimsy or trumped up excuses from your mate to go somewhere or do something without you tonight. Cheaters will come up with all kinds of excuses to spend time with their lovers on Mistress Day.

Cheating husbands and boyfriends will generally use some type of work-related excuse. A cheating wife or girlfriend will usually give an excuse that involves a sick relative or friend.

Plans Tonight That Don’t Include You

Does your spouse or significant other have plans for this evening that don’t include you?.

Ladies, when your husband comes home tonight, check for incriminating hotel or restaurant charge slips or receipts. Men are usually careless about such things and will frequently stuff them into a pocket without thinking. Or he may carelessly toss the contents of his pockets on the nightstand, or the top of the dresser when he undresses tonight, without giving it a second thought. Check to see what you can find.

Men, when your wife or girlfriend returns home for the evening, notice if she’s wearing perfume, jewelry or lingerie, that she wasn’t wearing when she left home.

What Else to Look for if You Still Suspect Infidelity

If everything checks out, then your spouse or lover may not be cheating – or it culd be tht you don’t know where to look or what to look for to find telltale signs of an affair.

Check back tomorrow and I’ll post some specific signs of infidelity that usually show up AFTER Valentine’s Day.

Meanwhile, request a FREE copy of the special report entitled 21 Ways to Tell if You Have a Cheating Mate. It describes the 21 major categories of infidelity signs and tells what type of signs to look for in each category. To get a FREE copy of this infidelity report, e-mail InfidelityInfo@gmail.com with the words “21 Ways - bi3 " in the subject line.

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Is Your Valentine the Cheating Kind? – Take This Quiz to Find Out

2009-02-08T10:38:00.002-05:00

If your husband or boyfriend is among the 50% to 70% of men who cheat on their mates, then you might not be his only Valentine.

Is your spouse or significant other is the type of man who would cheat on you?

Not every man is a cheater, but some men are more likely to cheat than others. You can tell by looking at certain things in a man’s background, his past history, or certain character traits.

Are you married to, or dating one of these potential cheaters?

Is your Valentine the cheating kind?

Take the 7-question Cheating Valentine Quiz below to find out.

The Cheating Valentine Quiz - Is Your Valentine the Cheating Kind?
© copyright 2004 - 2009 by Ruth Houston. All rights reserved.

This quiz will help you rate your mate to see if he’s likely to be one of those cheating Valentines who will one day break your heart.

1. Has he cheated in any of his past relationships?

2. Does he have a parent who cheated?

3. Does he believe in monogamy?

4. Does he have male friends who are cheating on their wives or girlfriends?

5. Does he have a lot of female friends?

6. Does he thrive on adventure?

7. Has he had a great deal of sexual experience prior to your relationship?

Answer Key

Generally speaking, the more “yes” answers, the greater the likelihood that your Valentine is the cheating kind.

But some answers, like #7, carry more weight than others. Scroll down to evaluate your answers and see what type of cheater you may be dealing with.

However, even if you only had one "yes” answer, there’s still cause for concern. If your Valentine turns out to be the cheating kind, there are precautions you can take to keep from becoming a victim of infidelity. Request a a FREE copy of the report entitled “How to Handle a Potential Cheater” by emailing InfidelityAdvice@gmail.com with Potential Cheater Report-bv1 in the subject line

What Do Your "Yes" Answers Mean?

Since some answers carry more weight than others, you’ll want to take a closer look at which questions you answered “Yes” to on the Cheating Valentine Quiz.

If you answered yes to #1, #2, or #5 (but not all three), he's a POTENTIAL CHEATER who will probably cheat if the opportunity presents itself. You need to make it difficult or inconvenient for him to cheat. Familiarize yourself with the warning signs of impending infidelity, so you can stop his cheating before it starts.

If you answered yes to #3 or #4 alone, together, or in combination with #1 or #2, he's a COMMON "GARDEN-VARIETY" CHEATER who will cheat if he feels he can safely do so without getting caught. If he gets away with it even once, it will give him the confidence to try it again, and his cheating will develop into a habit that's hard to break. Your challenge is to stay one step ahead of him by learning to recognize the obvious and not-so-obvious signs of infidelity, so you can speak up right away when you see the telltale signs of an affair – even if it’s after the fact. Don't let him think he's pulling the wool over your eyes.

If you answered yes to #6 alone or in combination with #1,#2, #3, #4, or #5 you're dealing with an EXPERIENCED CHEATER who has probably become very good at covering his tracks. The most important thing to do if you're dating or married to this man is learn to spot the subtle signs of infidelity, because these are the signs that will give him away. The one thing in your favor is that even experienced cheaters aren’t aware of how many subtle signs of infidelity they display. Get a good infidelity reference book, like Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs, ($29, Lifestyle Publications) which lists practically every known sign of infidelity, because you'll have to watch this man like a hawk.

If you answered yes to #7 alone (this one's the biggie) or in combination with any others, you've got a HARD-CORE CHEATER on your hands who might already be having an affair. For this man, cheating is a way of life. You're in serious trouble if you don't know how to spot the subtle signs of infidelity because these will be the only signs you see. This man is an expert at covering up all the classic (the top 10) signs of cheating, so don't expect to see any of the obvious signs. (He may also be adept at covering up many of the subtle signs.) No matter how experienced at cheating a man may be, or how carefully he tries to cover his tracks, he will ALWAYS leave signs behind. Knowing what to look for is the key. Invest in the best infidelity reference book you can find, so you won’t be in the dark about what’s going on. Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs ($29, Lifestyle Publications) is the only infidelity book that lists practically every known sign of infidelity. It even includes several dozen subtle signs that women usually overlook. Keep this book handy and refer to it often, if you don't want to be the last to know.

Click here to order your copy of Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs now.

© copyright 2004 - 2009 by Ruth Houston. All rights reserved.

How to Handle a Cheating Valentine

If your Valentine is the cheating kind,, you need to know how to handle the situation. There are precautions you can take to decrease the likelihood that your husband or boyfriend will actually have an affair. Request a FREE copy of the report entitled “How to Handle a Potential Cheater” which outlines several successful strategies you can use to avoid a lot of hurt, humiliation and heartbreak later on. E-mail InfidelityAdvice@gmail.com with Potential Cheater Report-bv1 in the subject line

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Don’t Spend the Year Wondering If You Have a Cheating Mate

2009-02-02T15:48:00.003-05:00

If you suspect your spouse or significant other of cheating on you, don’t spend the rest of the year wondering whether or not you have a cheating mate.

Make it your business to find out if what you suspect is true.

If your marriage or relationship is in jeopardy, you deserve to know the truth - not just for the sake of your relationship, but for your sanity, and your peace of mind.

If you’re even the least bit suspicious, you owe it to yourself to find out whether or not what you suspect is true.

Allowing your suspicions of infidelity to fester in your mind, will only result in endless days of worry and many sleepless nights.

Not only that, your suspicions will rob you of joy by poisoning your mind and affecting the way you relate to your mate – even on a subconscious level. .

So if you really think your mate is cheating on you, it's in your best interests to search for signs of infidelity so you can either confirm or disprove what you suspect.

Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs can help you detect any type of infidelity including emotional infidelity, cyber infidelity, workplace infidelity, same-sex infidelity, or financial infidelity.

This is the only infidelity book on the market that lists practically every known sign of infidelity, including the subtle signs people usually overlook. Click here to order your copy now.

Why You Can’t Afford to be the Last One to Know

In this day and age, if your spouse or significant other is cheating on you, you can’t afford to be the last one to know. There’s far too much at stake.

Being the last one to know could cost you your marriage / relationship, your money or your health.

Every day you put off finding out the truth you run the risk that

● Your cheating spouse will drain your joint bank accounts to finance their extramarital affair

● Your cheating spouse will max out your joint credit cards buying gifts for his or her lover and stick you with the bills.

● Your husband or boyfriend will get his lover pregnant, and end up having to pay child support.

● Your wife or girlfriend will become pregnant by her lover.

● Your cheating mate will put your health at risk by exposing you to HIV/AIDS or other sexually transmitted diseases, if he or she is having unprotected sex.

● Your cheating spouse or significant other will leave you ,and move in with his or her lover before you even realize what’s been going on.

● Your cheating husband or wife will surprise you with divorce papers that they’ve had secretly prepared behind your back.

As you can see, being the last to know can leave you open to financial ruin, jeopardize your health.

You can avoid the hurt, humiliation and heartbreak of being the last to know, by finding out the truth as soon as possible. Click here to order now.

The future of your marriage or relationship may well depend on your ability to spot the signs of infidelity in time.

For more reasons why you should check things out, click here to read the article entitled 13 Valid Reasons to Look for Signs of Infidelity

How You Can Avoid Being the Last to Know

The best way to avoid being the last to know is to be able to spot the signs of infidelity right away-- both the subtle and the obvious signs. No matter how carefully a cheater tries to cover his or her tracks, they ALWAYS leave signs behind. Because many of the signs are subtle and easy to overlook, knowing what to look for is the key.

Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs gives you a low-key, discreet, affordable ($29.95) and accurate way to find out the truth, and confirm or disprove your suspicions without a lot of time, money, or effort on your part -- and without letting on to your mate that you suspect.

Most of the signs in the book apply to both cheating women and cheating men.

The signs are conveniently grouped into 21 major categories so you can easily find the signs that apply to your mate. Each category contains from 19 to 92 telltale signs of infidelity.

So don’t spend the rest of the year wondering whether or not you have a cheating mate.
Click here to order your copy of Is He Cheating on You? now so you can find out the truth, for the sake of your relationship, and for your own peace of mind.

Is He Cheating on You? Now Available as eBook for International Customers

2009-01-18T15:41:00.002-05:00

For the convenience of customers outside the United States, the popular infidelity book, Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs is now available as an immediately downloadable e-book from Booklocker.com.

Every Known Sign Of Infidelity

Often described as a “cheater’s worst nightmare”, Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs covers practically every known sign of infidelity, including the subtle signs people usually overlook. Despite the book’s title, most of the signs in it apply both cheating woman and cheating men.

Faster, More Convenient for International Customers

“By popular request, I converted Is He Cheating on You? to e-book format in order to accommodate the many international customers who request the book.” says infidelity expert Ruth Houston, the author of the book and founder of http://www.infidelityadvice.com/ “Infidelity is a universal problem, so orders come from all over the world. It’s faster, easier, and more convenient for customers outside the United States to order the e-book version for $37 and download it on their computer. It’s also more economical, since the print book sells for $29.95 would incur a $12.95 international shipping and handing fee.”

Expose All Types Of Infidelity

The signs of infidelity in Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs are grouped into 21 major categories, so a person can easily find the signs that apply to their marriage or their mate. The categories include Physical Appearance, Conversational Clues, Work Habits, Day-to-Day Behavior, Telephone Tip-Offs, Computer Use, Car Clues, Financial Affairs, Travel, plus a dozen more. Each category contains from 19 to 92 specific telltale signs which can expose all types of infidelity including sexual infidelity, emotional infidelity, cyber infidelity, workplace infidelity, same sex infidelity and more.

For a free tip sheet describing each of the 21 Categories of Infidelity Signs, e-mail InfidelityInfo@gmail.com with the words 21 categories –bi in the subject line.

Bonus Section Included

The author, infidelity expert Ruth Houston, has added a special bonus section in the e-book version of Is He Cheating on You? which includes 8 special infidelity reports and infidelity questionnaires, 5 of which address recovering from an affair, and a special section for men entitled, Is SHE Cheating?

What Customers Like About the Book

Houston, who is frequently called on by the media to comment on popular infidelity issues in the news, says, “What customers tell me they like most about Is He Cheating on You? is that it contains everything they need to get the goods on a cheating mate, without the need for expensive private investigators or fancy surveillance equipment like hidden cameras, recording devices, GPS trackers, keyloggers, spyware and other gadgetry. Many people are intimidated by these things, or simply can’t afford them. And in many places, the use of such equipment is illegal.”

“With Is He Cheating on You? all a person needs are their own eyes and ears, their personal knowledge of their mate, and the information in this book. They’ll catch the cheater every time. . Knowing what to look for is the key. It’s a discreet, affordable, easy, and highly accurate way to catch a cheating mate.”

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How to Order Is He Cheating on You?

The e-book version of Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs, which sells for $37 is available from Booklocker.com. Order from http://www.booklocker.com/books/1755.html

About the Author

Is He Cheating on You?– 829 Telltale Signs was written by Ruth Houston, a nationally-recognized infidelity expert who is frequently called on by the media to comment on popular infidelity issues in the news. Houston, has been researching infidelity for 15 years, and is the founder of http://www.infidelityadvice.com/

In addition to being quoted in USA Today, the New York Times, the Wall Street Journal, the Los Angeles Times, the New York Daily News, the Chicago Tribune, FoxNews.com, ABCNews.com, msnbc.com, the Associated Press, and other American print and online media, Ruth Houston has also been quoted in many international publications including Visao, Sante, the Observer, the Irish Independent, the Sydney Morning Herald, Monsters and Critics, the Toronto Sun, the Mail & Guardian, Agence France-Presse, Reuters, United Press International, Chatelaine, Maclean's, Flare, the National Post, Vancouver Sun, Bahamas News, the Jamaica Observer, the South African Star, China Daily, Turkish Press, VietNamNet, Naharnet Newsdesk, Her World, Bellezza, Who Magazine, British Cosmopolitan, B Magazine and many others too numerous to mention.

Houston has also appeared on The Today Show, Good Morning America, CNN, Fox & Fox News, The Morning Show, BBC, CBC, on Ireland's Late Late Show, CBC, BBC Caracol Radio Network The Breakfast Club, Court TV Radio, Sirius Satellite Radio and over 480 other radio and TV shows in the United States, Canada, Europe, South America, New Zealand, Australia, Africa, and the Caribbean.

To interview infidelity expert Ruth Houston, call 718 592-6039 or e-mail InfidelityExpert@gmail.com

For more information about signs of infidelity, cheating spouses, or extramarital affairs, visit

http://freeinfidelitytipsheets.blogspot.com/

http://ishecheatingonyou.blogspot.com/

http://infidelitynewsandviews.blogspot.com/

The Top 36 Infidelity Articles from www.InfidelityAdvice.com

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The main website for http://www.infidelityadvice.com/ is temporarily down.

Until the site has been restored the Quick Access Guide below will link you directly to the 36 top infidelity articles from InfidelityAdvice.com .

NOTE: If you are a member of the press, please scroll down to the section entitled MEDIA INQUIRIES, for links to infidelity expert Ruth Houston’s bio and recent press releases, or feel free to contact Ruth Houston at 718 592-6029 or InfidelityExpert@gmail.com

Quick Access to the Top 36 Infidelity Articles from InfidelityAdvice.com

Is Your Husband or Wife Cheating? - 21 Ways You Can Tell

Infidelity Resources to Help You Catch a Cheating Mate

5 Things You Shouldn’t Do If He’s Cheating On You

FREE Infidelity Tip Sheets and Special Reports

Cheating Husbands and Cheating Wives Give Different Reasons for Having Affairs

15 Things Everyone Should Know About Signs of Infidelity

What Ordinary Women Do When Their Husbands Cheat

Getting Revenge on a Cheating Mate

Top 10 Signs of Infidelity and Why Knowing Them Won’t Do You Any Good

Happy Husbands Cheat Too and Good Marriages Aren’t Immune to Affairs

Will He Cheat? – Take This Quiz and Find Out

Why Most Cheaters Don’t Get Caught

Don’t Be Misled by the Top 10 Signs of Infidelity

Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs – Book Review

Is SHE Cheating? - Many Unsuspecting Husbands Find Out Too Late

What to Do If You Suspect Your Spouse of Cheating

What Ordinary Women Do When Their Husbands Cheat

13 Practical Reasons to Search for Signs of Infidelity

3 Reasons Why You Can’t Afford to Be the Last to Know

Should You Take a Cheater Back? – How to Decide

How Betrayed Wives Get Revenge on Their Cheating Mates

The Down Low - Same Sex Infidelity - When the Other Woman is Another Man

The Life of a Brokeback Wife - An Inside Look at Same Sex Infidelity

Men and Women Cheat On Each On Other For Entirely Different Reasons

The Truth About Cyber Affairs

The Wife is STILL the Last to Know

Infidelity Expert Ruth Houston Discusses Taking a Cheater Back

Should Wives Be Blamed When Their Husbands Cheat?

Research Proves that Happy Husbands Cheat Too

Looking for Infidelity Advice.com?

Happy Husbands Cheat on Their Wives Too

Are Wives to Blame When Their Husbands Cheat?

Did His Genes Make Him Cheat? – Not Likely

Financial Infidelity and Cheating Husbands

Do Work Spouse Relationships Lead to Workplace Affairs?

Are You Dating a Married Man?

About the book Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs

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For more information about the book Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs , click here, or use the link below:
http://ishecheatingonyou.blogspot.com/

To buy a copy of Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs for $29.95 plus shipping and handling, click here or use the link below:
http://www.ishecheatingbook.com/

You can also order Is He Cheating on You? from Amazon.com,
or from the 24-hour toll free number 1-800-431-1579

Customers Outside the United States :
For your convenience, Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs is available as an e-book, which you can download to your computer from Booklocker.com for $37. The e-book version of Is He Cheating on You? comes with 6 special reports and a special section for men entitled Is SHE Cheating?

To order the e-book version of Is He Cheating on You?, click here or use the link below: http://www.booklocker.com/books/1755.html

MEDIA INQUIRIES
To Editors, Reporters, TV and radio producers:

For infidelity expert Ruth Houston’s bio and photo, click here, or use the link below www.AuthorsDen.com/RuthHouston

For a list of infidelity expert Ruth Houston’s recent press releases, click here, or use this link
http://www.expertclick.com/NewsReleaseWire/default.cfm?Action=ViewMyNews&NRWID=5771

Ruth Houston's Predictions of the Emerging Infidelity Trends in 2008 http://www.authorsden.com/visit/viewnews.asp?AuthorID=9889&id=20797

For an additional list of Ruth Houston’s press releases, click here, or use the link below http://www.authorsden.com/visit/viewnews.asp?AuthorID=9889
(scroll down to see the complete list, by date)

To interview infidelity expert Ruth Houston,
call 718 592-6039, or e-mail InfidelityExpert@Gmail.com

The 29 Most Popular Infidelity Topics from www.InfidelityAdvice.com

2008-12-10T12:16:00.000-05:00

The main website for http://www.infidelityadvice.com/ is temporarily down.

Until the site has been completely restored, the Quick Access Guide below will link you directly to articles on the 29 most popular infidelity topics from http://www.infidelityadvice.com/

NOTE: If you are a member of the press, please scroll down to the section entitled MEDIA INQUIRIES, for links to infidelity expert Ruth Houston’s bio and recent press releases, or feel free to contact Ruth Houston at 718 592-6029 or InfidelityExpert@gmail.com

Quick Access to Articles on the 29 Most Popular Infidelity Topics
from www.InfidelityAdvice.com

All About Signs of Infidelity

Will He Cheat Quiz

The Advantages of Looking for Signs of Infidelity

Getting Revenge

Why Men and Woman Cheat

What NOT to Do If He’s Cheating

Top 10 Signs of Infidelity

21 Major Categories of Infidelity Signs

Resources to Catch a Cheating Mate

Happy Husbands Cheat Too

About Black Men and the Down Low

Same sex Infidelity or Gay Married Men

Is SHE Cheating

Cyber Cheating

Taking a Cheater Back

Why Women Stay with Cheaters

Work Spouse Relationships

Revenge and Infidelity

Female Infidelity

Emotional Infidelity

Cheating Politicians

Why Politicians Cheat

Celebrity Infidelity

Why Celebrities Cheat

Revenge cheating and retaliatory affairs

Financial Infidelity and Cheating Husbands

Financial Infidelity and Sexual Infidelity

Office Romance – Workplace Romance - Workplace Affairs

About the book Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs

If There’s Something You Can’t Find . . .

If there’s any specific infidelity information you need, and are unable to find, please e-mail me at Infidelity911@gmail.com and I'll send you a link.

For more information about the book Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs , click here, or use the link below:
http://ishecheatingonyou.blogspot.com/

To buy a copy of Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs for $29.95 plus shipping and handling, click here or use the link below:
http://www.ishecheatingbook.com/

You can also order Is He Cheating on You? from Amazon.com,
or from the 24-hour toll free number 1-800-431-1579

Customers Outside the United States:
For your convenience, Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs is available as an e-book, which you can download to your computer from Booklocker.com for $37. The e-book version of Is He Cheating on You? comes with 6 special reports and a special section for men entitled Is SHE Cheating?

To order the e-book verion of Is He Cheating on You? click here or use the link below: http://www.booklocker.com/books/1755.html

MEDIA INQUIRIES
To Editors, Reporters, TV and radio producers:

For infidelity expert Ruth Houston’s bio and photo, click here, or use the link below www.AuthorsDen.com/RuthHouston

For a list of infidelity expert Ruth Houston’s recent press releases, click here,
or use this link
http://www.expertclick.com/NewsReleaseWire/default.cfm?Action=ViewMyNews&NRWID=5771

Ruth Houston Predicts the Emerging Infidelity Trends for 2008 http://www.authorsden.com/visit/viewnews.asp?AuthorID=9889&id=20797

For an additional list of Ruth Houston’s press releases, click here, or use the link below http://www.authorsden.com/visit/viewnews.asp?AuthorID=9889
(scroll down to see the complete list, by date)

To interview infidelity expert Ruth Houston,
call 718 592-6039, or e-mail InfidelityExpert@Gmail.com

Infidelity Resources To Help You Catch A Cheating Mate

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The infidelity resources below will help you uncover evidence of a cheating spouse, find proof of infidelity, catch a cheating husband or wife, find out who they are cheating with, and more.

You can check out cell phone numbers, e-mail addresses, or run background checks.

Using these reliable and reasonably-priced resources, you can search for signs of infidelity and uncover solid evidence that your spouse or significant other is cheating on you.

Some of these are the same sources used by law enforcement, government officials, lawyers, and private investigators. For affordable fees , you can get immediate online access to federal, local and state databanks containing the information. you want to find. All your searches are 100% confidential ,and can be done from the privacy and comfort of your own home, on your own computer.

Phone Number Search
Find out whose phone number that is.

If you find numbers you don’t recognize on your caller ID, cell phone bill, programmed into your spouse or significant other's cell phone, or find unfamiliar numbers scribbled on scraps of paper or the back of business cards, you can do a reverse phone number search to find out whose number it is. Your search is 100% confidential. For an additional fee, this service will also allow you to run background checks on any names you come across. For more information, click here, or go to www.CheatingSpousePhoneSearch.com

E-Mail Address Search
Find out who that e-mail address belongs to.

If your spouse or significant other is sending or receiving e-mails from someone you don’t know, you can find out that e-mail address belongs to by running a reverse e-mail search with the largest e-mail search database on the internet. This is the same service used by law enforcement, government officials, lawyers, private investigators and many others. For more information, click here, or go to www.CheatingSpouseEMailSearch.com

Background Checks
Get more information about the person your partner is cheating with

If you already have the name of the person (or persons) your spouse or significant other is seeing behind your back, you can run a background check to find additional information about who this person is. If you don’t have a name yet, use the phone search or e-mail search services above to track down the person’s name. Then use this service to run your background check from any computer. You can find out all kinds of information about this person including :

• where they live (address history)

• where they work ( work history)

• Are they married, single, or divorced? (marriage and divorce records)

• Have they ever been convicted of a crime? (criminal background check)

• and more.

Your search is completely confidential, and no one will ever know you ran a background check unless you choose to tell them how you found out the information. For more information, click here, or go to www.CheatingSpouseBackgroundCheck.com

The Top 35 Infidelity Articles from www.InfidelityAdvice.com

2008-11-20T17:10:00.010-05:00

The main website for http://www.infidelityadvice.com/ is temporarily down. In the meantime, use the Quick Access Guide below to access the top 35 infidelity articles from http://www.infidelityadvice.com/

Clicking on the title will take you directly to the article you want.

If There’s an Article You Can’t Find . . .

There were 96 infidelity article on the main website http://www.infidelityadvice.com/ If there’s a specific infidelity article you’re looking for and are unable to find, e-mail me at Infidelity911@gmail.com and I will send you a link. I know many of you have come to depend on http://www.infidelityadvice.com/ as a source of reliable, practical, and immediately-usable infidelity information to help you deal with a cheating mate. I apologize for the inconvenience and hope to have the main website restored as soon as possible.

Is Your Husband or Wife Cheating? - 21 Ways You Can Tell

Infidelity Resources to Help You Catch a Cheating Mate

5 Things You Shouldn’t Do If He’s Cheating On You

FREE Infidelity Tip Sheets and Special Reports

Cheating Husbands and Cheating Wives Give Different Reasons for Having Affairs

15 Things Everyone Should Know About Signs of Infidelity

What Ordinary Women Do When Their Husbands Cheat

Getting Revenge on a Cheating Mate

Top 10 Signs of Infidelity and Why Knowing Them Won’t Do You Any Good

Happy Husbands Cheat Too and Good Marriages Aren’t Immune to Affairs

Will He Cheat? – Take This Quiz and Find Out

Why Most Cheaters Don’t Get Caught

Don’t Be Misled by the Top 10 Signs of Infidelity

Book Review - Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs

Is SHE Cheating? - Many Unsuspecting Husbands Find Out Too Late

What to Do If You Suspect Your Spouse of Cheating

13 Practical Reasons to Search for Signs of Infidelity

3 Reasons Why You Can’t afford to Be the Last to Know

Should You Take a Cheater Back? – Here’s How to Decide

How Betrayed Wives Get Revenge on Their Cheating Mates

The Down Low - Same Sex Infidelity - When the Other Woman is Another Man

The Life of a Brokeback Wife - An Inside Look at Same Sex Infidelity

Men and Women Cheat On Each On Other For Entirely Different Reasons

The Truth About Cyber Affairs

The Wife is STILL the Last to Know

Infidelity Expert Ruth Houston Discusses Taking a Cheater Back

Should Wives Be Blamed When Their Husbands Cheat?

Research Proves that Happy Husbands Cheat Too

Looking for Infidelity Advice.com?

Happy Husbands Cheat on Their Wives Too

Are Wives to Blame When Their Husbands Cheat?

Did His Genes Make Him Cheat? – Not Likely

Financial Infidelity and Cheating Husbands

Do Work Spouse Relationships Lead to Workplace Affairs?

Are You Dating a Married Man?

About the book Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs

To buy a copy of Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs for $29.95 plus shipping and handling, click here

You can also order from Amazon.com,

or from the 24-hour toll free number 1-800-431-1579

Infidelity Resources To Help You Catch A Cheating Mate

2008-11-20T14:37:00.003-05:00